My partner is using me, should I break up with my partner?
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Moderated by Danielle Johnson, MSED, Community mental Health Counseling, LMHC
Updated: Nov 2, 2021
RYBH
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Oct 26, 2014
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If your partner is using you, you should break up with this person. You may hear the phrase this person is 'toxic' to you and that is true, you are someone who should be loved and cared for, not used.
mayank4u
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Oct 27, 2014
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using me is a big word and its difficult to understand the depth of the same. If you thinks that he/she is doing wrong to you then you should take some step for your future.
Anonymous
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Nov 1, 2014
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It's best to sit and talk honestly if that's not possible talk to someone who knows both of you or someone who you trust and sort out the issue. If he/she is using you, it's best to be direct and ask what's going on.
helpmeHelpyou61
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Nov 3, 2014
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Well if you are sure about it then you should! But I would suggest you to talk to him/her first and then only take the relevant action.
Anonymous
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Nov 4, 2014
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Yes! I've been through a relationship like that, and it does no good for either party. It's best to get out of it, which may be hard if you're in love, but remember that your the most important and you need to take care of yourself first.
LevisCorde
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Nov 6, 2014
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I think you should have an honest discussion with your partner about your feelings, and about your relationship, to decide if it is something that is either salvageable, or something that would be better left behind you.
laurapb
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Nov 9, 2014
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As I don't know you either your partner, I don't know your personalities but, I you are so sure your partner's doing that, then yes, I would advice you to break up with him. Before he does it and you get even more hurt. He's not acting correctly do, you re the one that needs to clear things, make yourself be respected and stand out for yourself. You are strong, and you can handle this, don't let anyone laugh at you or use you. You are much better than him, so demonstrate it.
JulieAliH
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Nov 11, 2014
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If the relationship no longer brings you happiness or betters your sense of self, it is often best to choose another path. Relationships should be about finding yourself in another person and focusing on one another's happiness as the most important thing in your life. People are not objects and, therefore, should not be used. First and foremost, you deserve happiness and respect.
VDellW12
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Nov 11, 2014
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Being used is never a good feeling. Ask yourself this "Can I do better?" and to answer that! YES you can do better! Let them down easily but firmly let them know you don't like to be used.
setmefreeletmebe
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Apr 10, 2015
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Yep yep yep. Defenitly. Because such kind of people don't deserve hearts of innoncent, vulnerable people.
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