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My partner and I keep breaking up and getting back together again. I don't know what to do any more.

Profile: TheLoreWriter
TheLoreWriter on Apr 9, 2016
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If you break up and make up repeatedly, before you ask yourself why you make up with your partner, you need to ask yourself why you break up. If one of you lacks respect for the other and mistreats them, then the relationship is not healthy. You can choose to be back with them if you truly believe that they are worth it, but if there is a clear problem with a clear solution, you should avoid having a relationship together until the problem has been dealt with.
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Anonymous on Apr 14, 2016
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If the relationship keeps promoting a break up, and if the causes are recurrent, then it isn't healthy for either party and it's time to separate for good.
Profile: EphemeralYouth
EphemeralYouth on Apr 23, 2016
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You need to decide if you really want to be with your partner. If it's on and off it may be a time to just stand back and really take a good hard look at you twos relationship
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Anonymous on Apr 24, 2016
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either work out your problem maybe even with a therapist or it could be it is not a stong relationship and maybe you should see new people.
Profile: shiningCherry13
shiningCherry13 on Dec 17, 2015
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Getting back together again and again is indeed a positive sign. Maybe you need to work on what leads to the break ups. Work together and find what triggers this. If there are unresolved issues from the past that keep repeating, it is time you concentrate on reducing them if not able to erase them. Since you are able to bring yourself up against it beautifully. But if the issues are new every time, then it probably means you need to spend more time together and focus on understanding each other better.
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Anonymous on Dec 25, 2015
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every relationship have some or other problem but this doesn't mean that u should break up try to figure out what is the real cause of your break ups... generly its insecurity bt still try to figure it out and talk to your partner about it
Profile: kindBeach39
kindBeach39 on Dec 30, 2015
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I have been in this situation. Thinking of going through with the relationship because I didnt want to waste the time and emotion I invested. Assess the situation. Are you still happy? Is the relationship toxic? Will you really be okay with this kind of set up in the long run? Be true to yourself. Trust your instinct. Trust yourself and your decisions. Most of all, reaffirm your love for yourself. You'll know deep inside what to do.
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Anonymous on Jan 1, 2016
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It's called love. If you are fighting with someone and also you care about a lot for that person, so you are in love with that guy. Further, about fight "where is the fight, there is a love".
Profile: King0fclubs
King0fclubs on Jan 20, 2016
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From what I have seen, Its often because both parties are in denial about what they really want. 99/100 if its off and on its best left off. You broke up for a reason if that reasons is cleared up okay maybe, If its not or if its something that doesn't go away. It will only repeat again and again.
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Anonymous on Jan 24, 2016
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I recommend you to talk about it with him and give some time to see if it works. If not I think you should end it because I know you deserve better and sometimes you should be your own person. Everything's going to be alright :)
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