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My partner and I keep breaking up and getting back together again. I don't know what to do any more.

Profile: dolcevita
dolcevita on Aug 3, 2015
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Take some time apart to cool down and think things through. It's normal to have disagreements, but breaking up constantly over them is not a good sign. Identify what's causing the breakups, and see if they can actually be solved. If you are breaking up for the same issue each time, which you had already talked about working it out without success, then that may be a sign to call it quits and start moving on.
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Anonymous on Nov 2, 2015
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Try to understand what both you want and look forward to and then decide how helpful it has been for your personal growth.
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Anonymous on Dec 16, 2015
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It's time to move on. It's hard, it hurts, and it seems like it can work, but ifor you and your parter keep breaking up, its apparent that you both need to go work on loving yourselves and if it works out down the road awesome! But life is too short, and there's so many people with values that match up to yours. Give yourself a break from the Rollercoaster and even if it hurts, go work on the person you want to be for a little while.
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Ricky13 on Dec 18, 2015
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Ah, okay! Let's break this down ^-^ What do you like and enjoy about your guys relationship? Feel more than free to vent and reminisce.
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tranquilSunshine35 on Jan 20, 2016
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weigh the pros and cons of this on again off again behavior. ask yourself is it time to let go. is it time to move on? are you hindering your meeting that someone special?
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Anonymous on Feb 11, 2016
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I've been there before. I thought she could be the one. Sometimes love is such a strong feeling that blinds us from the truth. If you want to stay with him/her together in future, sit down and communicate, If not, tell him/her the truth. Love is letting the person we love to be happy. If you can't let that person happy, then stop the pain. If you can, solve it with him/her. It's not easy, but it's possible to end the chaos.
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Anonymous on Mar 18, 2016
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Fights in a relationship are normal. But breaking up and getting back together frequently is however, not healthy. It doesn't lets your mind to move on, and keeps going back to that one person.
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Anonymous on Mar 23, 2016
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Tell them how you feel about it. If it's not something you want then just block them out but only if you want to!
Profile: zaix
zaix on Mar 25, 2016
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If that's how you want to live your life and all then go for it. But if not then i suggest that you guys talk it over and decide what to do, there isn't much else, having a deep conversation about what to do should be the first step so that you're both on the same page.
Profile: optimisticBlossom66
optimisticBlossom66 on Mar 28, 2016
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If your partner and you keep breaking up and getting back together. Perhaps you need to ask yourself what lead to you guys breaking up? I have two really good friends who have been in your situation. They would get close and then break up and continue the same cycle. If you guys are breaking up it's clear that you are not meant to be together. Perhaps you need to spend some time apart from this partner and avoid contact so you can gain some clarity.
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