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My partner and I keep breaking up and getting back together again. I don't know what to do any more.

Profile: luminousPeace19
luminousPeace19 on Sep 20, 2016
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Breaking and getting back is not a problem as long as both of your desire to come back remains intact.
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Profile: ActiveListener0809
ActiveListener0809 on Jul 27, 2015
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Look at the reasons why you break up. Are these reoccurring? If so, is that what makes you happy or do want to move forward without that person.
Profile: bRenda09
bRenda09 on Jan 20, 2016
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It's a habit most couples tend to go through. Especially, the young couples. I've experienced this myself. What you need to do is give each other some space. Stay broken up for a good solid 2 weeks maybe even month. Within that tI'm you will realize if you truly want to be with each other or were simply together because of habit and the fact that you two were used to being together. Good Luck.!
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Anonymous on Jan 22, 2016
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What's to pint of keeping somebody if they just hurt you. You're suppseo to live life to the fullest, be happy, live in the moment, but with an anchor in your life, you can't do that. This "anchor" is only going to drag you down and prevent you from going forward and living.
Profile: sarahhangelica
sarahhangelica on Feb 10, 2016
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It's important to understand that all relationships have their ups and downs. If you're partner causes you to have anger, irritability, or sadness, this may be a sign that you two need to communicate and talk about how you two feel.
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Anonymous on Mar 26, 2016
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Oh no really that doesnt sound good at all, well i can help you with that tell me more about these breakups
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Anonymous on Apr 9, 2016
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Do what feels right in your gut. Perhaps even make a list for yourself (don't let them see it though!) about pros and cons of being together and being apart, and just see how you feel. Examine the reasons why you are breaking up. Is there anything that can be done to reduce the arguments? Are they down to a specific problem, e.g. you always fight after one of you has drunk a lot? Have a talk with them and ask them about why they feel this is happening, and try to settle on what you both ultimately want. Perhaps seeing a therapist could also help with this.
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Anonymous on Apr 15, 2016
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Clearly if you and your partner are breaking up and keep getting back together again, the relationship is not stable. I suggest breaking it off forever without trying to find a sollution to be stable because a corrupted and fragmented relationship always has many problems that can't be solved all at once.
Profile: Zer0Carter
Zer0Carter on Jan 7, 2016
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It all depends on what you're comfortable with and how you feel about it. If you still like your partner that way, and you've not initiated these breakups, a serious discussion could mend some issues.
Profile: vonniebee
vonniebee on Jan 14, 2016
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Try having an honest conversation about why you keep breaking up. There may be problems that you two aren't addressing that's creating tension in the relationship. Having a serious conversation, while being open to each other's feelings and thoughts will not only help relieve stress in the relationship, but it'll build up trust between the two of you. It would also do well for you to be honest with yourself if you think the relationship won't work the way you want it to. Things may need to end, but that doesn't have to be a bad thing. If it doesn't work out, maybe you two can be friends, and have a love that is platonic, instead.
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