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My partner and I keep breaking up and getting back together again. I don't know what to do any more.

Profile: compassionatesoul77
compassionatesoul77 on Jan 30, 2016
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Remember why you break up, then remember why you get back together. Once you have, decide which one of those is better for your life. Love yourself and good luck x
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Profile: politeFish31
politeFish31 on Feb 3, 2016
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Perhaps its time to take a break and find your own identity again as hard as the transition could sometimes be.
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Anonymous on Feb 11, 2016
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I think you need to break up permanently. The reason of your getting back every time can be out of habit.
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Anonymous on Apr 7, 2016
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Keep going. You will get used to it. Its not a big deal. everything will be ok. Its common among teenagers.
Profile: Theatlasinhereyes
Theatlasinhereyes on Apr 9, 2016
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Are you happy in this relationship? Because if so then maybe it's the best choice for you. But make sure you are doing this for you and not others
Profile: MrQuoteLifePH
MrQuoteLifePH on Apr 23, 2016
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Well Honestly If you still love your partner, give him another chance, if you don't its time for you to move on
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Anonymous on Oct 11, 2016
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Know the reasons why this keeps happening. Own to your part of it and assess if the relationship is lacking commitment or if it is worth staying for.
Profile: Allears247
Allears247 on Jun 5, 2018
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The big question is do you still want to be with this person? Most people I know that have revolving door relationships are generally afraid or don't know how to be alone.
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Anonymous on Jul 3, 2018
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You are afraid of new relationship. That's why you always end up with your partner. And if you are breaking up that much it means something is has to be fixed
Profile: SweetLovo91
SweetLovo91 on Jan 21, 2020
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It’s up to you as always, but think, if this problem continues, is it really a good choice to stay with someone who will break up over and over again? It’s hard to give them up and push them aside for sure. But if they won’t give you the same time and effort to staying with you, then it really isn’t the best option to stay with them. This could go on forever and ever. If you do decide to breakup, always consult with friends or family, because a lost like this is a tough one, and you have to refrain yourself from getting back together.
Profile: MrMeNr1
MrMeNr1 on Mar 13, 2015
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The most important thing is to do something, whatever that something might be. Choose between the two things, being staying with him/her or breaking up with him/her. Whatever your choice might be, make sure to stick with the choice.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 9, 2015
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I know this person may seem important to you but you have to think what is best for you in this situation. Ask yourself is this person right for me? Can I keep going through break ups with them? Would it be best to end things once and for all or to keep trying?
Profile: PracticalMaple
PracticalMaple on Dec 11, 2015
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are you both happy? you should both talk about your true feelings and what you both agree on, it starts to get unhealthy to break up and make up over and over and it'll become exhausting which will eventually just get you both down
Profile: FaithGreen16
FaithGreen16 on Dec 12, 2015
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write a list of the reasons why you want to be with him and why you don't want to be with him. and if there are more to one side, consult a friend or family member to help you make your final decision.
Profile: happyhearts5
happyhearts5 on Dec 12, 2015
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it helps to strengthen your relation more by knowing the things where you are breaking up and where you are coming together.this helps you know your strengths and weaknesses.
Profile: lovepaige
lovepaige on Dec 13, 2015
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Try and identify the reason behind why you and your partner keep breaking up and then come to a conclusion of how you are going to going to work through it.
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Anonymous on Dec 16, 2015
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This is an unhealthy relationship. I call this the roller coaster. One day, you're fine. The next, you're broken up. This will eventually end and it usually isn't by staying together.
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Anonymous on Dec 16, 2015
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Stay apart this relationship appears to be toxic. And are you committed to each other don't stay if you're unhappy
Profile: StormyAngles18
StormyAngles18 on Dec 17, 2015
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Communicate with your partner about how your feeling and explain exactly what is going on in your head and see if they try and fix it if not they resort to needed measures.
Profile: KRN
KRN on Dec 17, 2015
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Have a serious talk with that person.reevaluate your relationship, and if things go wrong, enough! You shoukd think and stop for a while.
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