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My partner and I keep breaking up and getting back together again. I don't know what to do any more.

Profile: TheListenerX
TheListenerX on Mar 19, 2016
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This is just my personal opinion, but I would say that is an "unhealthy" relationship. Having that much stress in a relationship is usually not a good sign.
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Profile: Swifting
Swifting on Dec 16, 2015
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For most relationships which are on again and off again I recommend remembering the reasons that you're no longer together. It seems to be that the reason you're apart is always a legitimate reason that reoccurs. Sometimes, people just don't work long term.
Profile: Lalaxoxo
Lalaxoxo on Jan 1, 2016
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This is something that needs to be sorted between you and your partner. If you feel like this will continue, and in the end, it will turn into nothing, then maybe talking about what to do is the best. However, you are the person who knows your partner.. not us. So taking our advise will not help, as we do not know them. It would be good to talk through it though with them.. As it may help the relationship become a bit more healthier. But do what suits you best and makes you happier in the long run xoxoxo
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 20, 2016
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All you have to do is ask yourself, is he the one worth fighting for? Is yes, try to find a way to stabilize you guys relationship. If no, then let him go and try not to let him back in.
Profile: ChiaraIsNowAvailable
ChiaraIsNowAvailable on Feb 5, 2018
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The question is, why do you keep breaking up? Sit down with your partner and try to thoroughly and indepthly analyze the situation - if you need some help, visiting a couples counselor might be a good idea.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 7, 2014
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What do you really want in this relationship? Are you sure it is worth pursuing? Try to think things if it is worth keeping or not?
Profile: glowlisten
glowlisten on Jan 27, 2016
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Think about what made you break up in the first place. Then think about what made you get back together. Repeat that step and think about the positives vs the negatives.
Profile: livdawg05
livdawg05 on Jan 31, 2016
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Find someone better! If thats how it is if you get married, is that going to work out?? Set your standards high!
Profile: dancingPillow85
dancingPillow85 on Mar 31, 2016
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Decide if you need this kind of a relationship in your life or nah. They may take you for granted, just make sure they are not abusive and toxic people.
Profile: shiningDay13
shiningDay13 on Mar 18, 2015
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It sounds like you and your partner love each other, but also have a lot of unresolved issues. Have you tried having a serious discussion with them about the reason(s) why you two keep breaking up? To avoid getting too caught up in the moment and getting too confrontational, you can bring your reasons or questions as reference.
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