My boyfriend told me he hooked up with someone else when we were on a break.

If you were on a break tht oesn't mean you weren't together and theremust of been a reason for the break so he should of repected that when he hooked up with someone

Well how do you feel about that? If he would do that again you may think about your relationship twice but if that’s not going to happen again, it might not be that bad? Still it is also very important that he told you what he did. That would mean he trusts you.

If you were on break you can't say he cheated but you should evaluate the situation and if he's good for you.

I know that even though you might know that it was a break and you shouldn’t be hurt, but you can’t help your feelings. If you think that you can be over that and forgive him then you should work things out with him, but if you think that he’s not worthy and if you don’t trust him anymore then you can’t change your feelings

Decide if this has broken your trust for him and if he respected you or not. Never let somebody step on your persona. Betrayal is never something to go past by so reflect on what's more important for you: the relationship with him or yourself. Do what your heart says.

If he can disrespect you once this way, then he will do it again. Don’t allow him to use the excuse of a “break” to hurt you!

You need to confront your boyfriend. Let him know that your not ok with the fact that you guys were in a realationship and he went after someone else. He needed to let you know. It's unfair that you have to deal with that. He is not worthy of you. He doesn;t deseve you because he would do something like that. The upsetting part is that your still with him. I bet you can do so much better. You were loyal and he took your heart and someone else's v-card. Don't stay with him. You deserve so much better. Soo much better.

"We were on a breeaak!" ~ Ross Geller - Friends Everyone has different perceptions as to what a break is and what the rules are. It is important to discuss with your partner, what your goal is for this break and some possible do's and don't's. However, if this has not taken place, do not worry! In this situation, it is important to speak to your partner, once you are ready, and discuss the situation. Communication is key! Through this discussion you can both express your feelings and what this action means to the both of you. During the situation of finding this out, do not jump to conclusions and surround yourself with people who love you. There are loads of possibilities as to why they slept with someone else; misunderstanding the term 'break', doing it intentionally or doing it unintentionally.

Have a talk with him. Ask him why he did it and do you know the girl he hooked up with. If it is someone you know. Maybe you should ask her some questions later. After talking to him. Give yourself some time to think. It's okay for you to feel something. He is/was your boyfriend. Can you forgive him. How would he feel if you hooked up with someone. Don't do anything to harm yourself. It could be time to move on. Who says he won't do this again. You are going to be fine. Give yourself time to move on hugs

The issue here, I believe, is to dig deep and be honest with yourself-against any fear you may feel- and ask yourself what kind of a relationship do you truly want? What kind of a partner? Only you know that answer. Sometimes, to get what we want, we have to say 'No!!' To what we don't want. Take courage! You are precious and important and there is someone who will love you as you deserve-whoever you choose that to be. (Safety side note, would recommend abstaining from sex for at least 3 months until he has been tested, so that you are not at risk of getting a disease passed on to you.) Hugs and courage to you! You are strong and worth it!!💗😁