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My boyfriend told me he hooked up with someone else when we were on a break.

Profile: wishfulEnergy42
wishfulEnergy42 on Jun 30, 2016
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That must be hard. Does he feel bad about it? Does he regret his decision? It's all up to you weither you want to continue the relationship or not.
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Anonymous on Jul 2, 2016
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Ask him why he did that.Continue to a discussion for this matter and either forgive him or end the relationship
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Anonymous on Jul 15, 2016
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have a civilized, adult like discussion, and don't hold back. If it upsets you, let him know without blaming him right away.
Profile: here4you201
here4you201 on Jul 17, 2016
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Ask your boyfriend politely what he would like to do and what he would like to say. Engage in a conversation calming then after he talks, you make your decision.
Profile: helpfulButterfly84
helpfulButterfly84 on Jul 30, 2016
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It is not loyal of your boyfriend to do this, yet at least he is being honest to you and telling you the truth. When on a break, it can be hard to resist others.
Profile: Grangs
Grangs on Aug 14, 2016
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You were on break, to me that is completely acceptable since you guys were no longer together at the time.
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Chiyoko on Aug 17, 2016
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Think about how you feel now? You might feel betrayed or maybe not even trust him anymore. Think to yourself is this a relationship you want to work on or if you want to end it.
Profile: HopeRemains
HopeRemains on Sep 7, 2016
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Breakup period is what we call realization period, it is a period when we have to think about ourselves. Breakup period is a period that we're very vulnerable. If you have been told that he hookup with someone you need time to cast forgiveness. Don't rush! Think before you cast forgiveness
Profile: NyanEar
NyanEar on Oct 6, 2016
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I do not suggest getting back together with him. Did you think this was okay? If no, he broke your trust. That's all there is to it.
Profile: safesecrets79
safesecrets79 on Oct 16, 2016
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The response to that action is a personal choice. Some people will accept that as an excuse and some won't. It's your personal choice.
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