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My boyfriend told me he hooked up with someone else when we were on a break.

Profile: MunchkinInsurance
MunchkinInsurance on Apr 3, 2018
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Do not stay with him. He is at fault. Never go back to a cheater because they will cheat again. You deserve better and are a beautiful person who deserves a caring and loyal person.
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Profile: theduck
theduck on Jun 15, 2016
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Well...at least he is honest with you. If he loved her more than you he wouldn't talked to you about this.
Profile: bookaholik1324
bookaholik1324 on Jun 16, 2016
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As objectively as you can, decide where you want to "draw your line in the sand" for any romantic relationship. Then, ask yourself if he has "crossed the line."
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 30, 2016
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Although people do make mistake, cheating is not okay under any circumstances. Leaving someone is a hard thing to do, but it would be better for yourself in the long run. never settle for less.
Profile: ChapterNate
ChapterNate on Jul 17, 2016
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Of you were on a break, then that's completely okay. It may hurt... a lot... to think about. But you have to remember that you were on a break and therefore not dating at that point.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 5, 2018
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I'm sorry to hear that. You shouldn't continue a relationship with someone who did that. In my opinion someone doing that just proves that they didn't like you as much as they claimed. I mean you being on a break must of been cause you had problems. Him doing that to you just proves why he isn't right for you.
Profile: Alyssamtaylor
Alyssamtaylor on Jun 29, 2016
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I can see both sides. He thought that you were in a break and were probably over. I can also see that you still wanted to be together and felt replaced. I understand. I would talk to him about it! There's no harm in trying!
Profile: Eyesears
Eyesears on May 23, 2018
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When you are on a break you are free. Of course, normally it is expected to take some time alone to realize about your real feelings. Meeting other people or having other sexual partners during a brake is not always the best or healthiest way to solve problems during a brake. But you can’t blame him for that. Just take this as a fact, extra information about him which may help you taking the proper decision wether he is or he is not the person you want to share projects with.
Profile: VioletListens1
VioletListens1 on Jul 15, 2020
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My person opinion: A break doesnt mean it's the end of a relationship. Its giving space to each other but that doesn't give you the right of dating/hookig up with someone else. My boyfriend and I took a break as well and remained in touch but we didnt date/hooked up with anyone. I dont think that taking a break means that you can date/hook up with someone else. But then again it's my opinion you can have your own as well! I hope you're okay now
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 16, 2016
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Well, is he guilty? but still you should think is he the one for you? is he deserves you? because if he was sincere with you.. he wouldn't have done this.. and if he did that when you guys were on break.. then he could do again that thing behind your back.. think about yourself. #goodluck.
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