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My boyfriend or girlfriend cheated on me, should we break up?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 12, 2016
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If your partner cheated on you that depends on you weather break up or not but best to hear your par
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Profile: caringdaisy
caringdaisy on Sep 25, 2016
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Yes. If someone cheats on you it is not a mistake, its a choice. They knew what they were doing when they did it and they knew they will hurt you when you find out. If they do it once they can do it again.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 1, 2016
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Discuss this with your partner, if he/she openly confesses ask the reason, express yourself out, after that there is no point of you to stay with him/her
Profile: shiningHeart83
shiningHeart83 on Oct 12, 2016
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I have just recently had that happen to me. What I did was I asked him if he had been seeing other girls, and thank God he was honest with me. He said that he had, and that he was sorry, and asked if I would give him another chance. I was vulnerable, so I did. I found out that he had cheated on me again, and so after the second time he cheated, we broke up.
Profile: cosyheart21
cosyheart21 on Nov 5, 2016
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Trust is the most important part of any relationship, and after that trust is broken, it takes a lot of time, energy, and dedication to work on building it back up. If you truly believe that working to rebuild your relationship is worth it, and both you and your partner are willing to work at it and make things right, then you should try and continue to work things out. However, if you feel like it isn't worth it, or, if your partner, doesn't want to work things out, or take responsibility for his or her actions, then breaking up is something that you should consider. Stay strong.
Profile: allnaturalUnicorns70
allnaturalUnicorns70 on Dec 16, 2016
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That's totally up to you. Some people can accept it as a mistake and move on. Often it shows the lack of regard your BF/GF has for the relationship. Follow your gut and make sure you get respected in the end. Good luck to you!
Profile: richBeauty88
richBeauty88 on Mar 4, 2017
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I think you need to ask yourself if you still 100% trust them, if you decide to stay with each other what they did will always be on your mind if you see them texting by themselves or if they are talking with someone else, to be honest it'll come up in every major fight you have. If you trust them fully and believe them and know you guys can get over it together and be faithful then that's good, if not you are only hurting yourself by staying
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 13, 2017
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First things first, respect yourself always. Often it is hard to know exactly what to do immediately after you find out what has happened, and sometimes people rush into decisions. No matter your decision, though, remember that whatever happened is NOT your fault, and there IS someone out there who will not break your heart in this way. Respect yourself
Profile: InfeniousHopeful
InfeniousHopeful on Apr 14, 2017
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This really depends on you as a couple. The circumstances and how strongly you do feel towards each other. However, I personally believe that if the relationship was strong and both parties truly loved each other cheating would not have even been considered.
Profile: Mhysie14
Mhysie14 on Apr 15, 2017
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It really depends on the people involved. You both need to decide whether moving forward is an option or whether it would be too difficult. Often infidelity can lead to insecurities. If these aren't dealt with properly then it's unlikely you'll be able to move forward.
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