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My boyfriend or girlfriend cheated on me, should we break up?

Profile: radiantPoetry15
radiantPoetry15 on Jan 8, 2016
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That would be entirely your decision I cant make that for you. It's something you will have to decide on
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Profile: Natureman
Natureman on Jan 9, 2016
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Yes, cheating is never accepted and if you forgive one time it might happen again, even when it does not the feeling of trust if lost forever.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 10, 2016
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At least hear them out, see if it was a misunderstanding or where it went wrong. If your significant other really has no intention to stay together, break it up. Break it up, get over them, and find someone else who is willing to treat you the way you should be. If there was some kind of accident or miscommunication, clear things up and make the final decision - to forgive them or forget them.
Profile: exquisiteGrotto32
exquisiteGrotto32 on Jan 13, 2016
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that decision is up to you. You just have to work out if you're willing to give him/her another chance..
Profile: FaythLexis
FaythLexis on Jan 15, 2016
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Firstly you should try to talk about it with him/her. If you think he/she is guilty about it and wants another chance then do give it another shot. If it happens again then yes I think the breakup would be the right choice.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 16, 2016
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in my opinion, it will be a good idea to let he/her go. each of person can have a chance to find the one to make him/her stop looking.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 1, 2016
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Let's think about this for a moment. Can you think of any reason in which cheating is justifiable? Now if the answer is yes, did your boyfriend/girlfriend cheat on you for any of those justifiable reasons. If the answer to that is yes, then I don't see a reason on why you should break up (since it is "justifiable" to you. But unless such is true, what are you waiting for?
Profile: hearnospeaknoseeno
hearnospeaknoseeno on Feb 5, 2016
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Yes, because you will only be cheating yourself out of a better relationship with someone else in the long run. You deserve better than this, love yourself and acknowledge that you have been wronged and disrespected. I will be here to support you if you need any help at all.
Profile: positivepenny85
positivepenny85 on Feb 11, 2016
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It must be painful to have someone close betray you. However, no one can make this decision for you.
Profile: shreyr612
shreyr612 on Feb 11, 2016
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It's good to forgive. When the hurt and anger are really intense, it might not be possible, but ideally you let go of the hurt and anger as time passes. Now, whether or not you should remain romantically involved with a cheater is a whole other question. Forgiving someone who has wronged you doesn't necessarily mean keeping them around so they can wrong you again.
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