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My boyfriend or girlfriend cheated on me, should we break up?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 8, 2018
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Human beings are flawed spices. We are often driven by unnecessary emotions and impulses. We tend to screw up pretty often, so before making a decision, try and find out under what circumstances did they do what they did! Ask yourself "Would you do the same if you had been in their position?" Give them the opportunity to be heard. Then and only then should you make a decision about breaking up.
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Profile: esahag2
esahag2 on Oct 9, 2014
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What you should do before you break up is make sure if this is true? You need to talk to your partner and confront him about the problem. It is better to make sure than to take action.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 2, 2014
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I am hearing that your partner was unfaithful. As I am not you, first you should establish how you feeling about it now?
Profile: Lailah
Lailah on Nov 18, 2014
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If you can not accept it nor willing to forgive if you stay you'll be resenting them instead try to work through if you cant it's best to leave but do what you feel is best
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 30, 2015
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If your partner cheated on you, you should do what is best for yourself. You're the expert on you. Don't let yourself get torn up over this situation!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 18, 2015
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Yes, because you never know if he/she will do it again, they didn't respect you, to avoid getting more hurt than now better end it when it happens
Profile: FractalBunny
FractalBunny on Jan 1, 2016
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That all depends on why they did it and how much you trust them. I would usually say yes unless there are very specific circumstances.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 3, 2016
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This is your choice. If your boyfriend cheated on you, it is up to you if you want to break up with him. But first, consider things such as, have they done this before? Are they going to continue doing this is the future? Also remember, even if they promise that they will never do it again, that isn't always the truth. Do the good things out way the bad?
Profile: daniellebee
daniellebee on Jan 6, 2016
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I would say that it depends on the circumstances. If this was the first and only time it happened and they apologized, perhaps you could forgive them. If it was ongoing and you just recently found out, I think it would be best to end it. You deserve much better and while it may be hard to let go now, you'll likely be glad you did later. You can't find someone who's right for you if you're staying with someone who isn't.
Profile: simran14
simran14 on Jan 6, 2016
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if you feel your partner is worth it and it was a mistake then you can give it a thought but if they have done it intentionally then they don't deserve a chance
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