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My boyfriend or girlfriend cheated on me, should we break up?

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Anonymous on Jul 2, 2017
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Being cheated on always questions the trust that you thought was built between you and your significant other.. And it'll linger in your mind whether they'll do it again. Speaking to your partner about the trust that was broken and how it can be mended back can help in your decision.
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Anonymous on Jul 6, 2017
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You should give him-her the chance to talk. After, you decide if you can live with that... You can afront this, good luck and keep strong.
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calliista14 on Dec 8, 2017
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AMomentInTime1830 on Sep 13, 2021
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That’s a personal decision only you can know the answer to. There is no right answer here, and what we each experience in our lives will lead us to different outcomes. It’s easy enough to say “YES, of course!!!” But depending on your circumstances that answer may not be what’s best for you. Look at the facts. Look at your partner. Decide what to do from here. This is not an easy process, nor is it something that comes without faults. There will be work to do on both sides, and rebuilding trust as well as self esteem will be the forefront of the situation. If staying together, working through this challenge is what works best for you and your personal circumstance, then be patient. Be kind, be forgiving, and be honest. If this is the choice you make, give each other the best shot at success as possible. If you choose to leave, then care for yourself. Heal yourself and take the time to learn to love who you are and what you encompass as an individual with a new experience to grow from
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YourCaringConfidant on Aug 28, 2024
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People breakup for many valid reasons. If you're asking whether you should leave your cheating partner-- then that is something only you can decide. Cheating can be extremely detrimental to the relationship and the other person. You have to ask yourself "How much am I willing to put up with? What am I willing to tolerate?" In relationships, at one time or another we may all be guilty of doing something or saying something we regret. While we are all imperfect beings, cheating is one of those things that shouldn't take place. But speaking from personal experience, it's one of those things we have to dig deep down and answer the questions we may or may not fully know. Are there any underlying issues to where the cheating partner that there was no way out? Perhaps some people just cheat to cheat with no regard for the other's feelings. In that case, it's selfish. Perhaps the cheating partner felt their emotional, sexual/physical, etc needs were not being met and they sought that in someone else. While it is still wrong, who knows. Communication is very important in relationships and I do believe cheating is one of those things that couples can come back from. It's so easy to tell someone "yes, leave that cheater for what they did." But what is this really saying? Did forgiveness just fly straight out the window? Where is the mention? If you are willing to forgive your partner and take them back and stay and work through the problems, them great. If you decide this one time mistake of infidelity is one you can't tolerate, then that's what's best for you. What someone else may be able to forgive may not be true for someone else and that's ok. It's your choice what you do, but please know you deserve to be happy. Aside from the infidelity this time, how was the overall relationship? Was there more good than bad memories? You've got some thinking to do, my friend, but I am wishing you all the best! ♡
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