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My boyfriend or girlfriend cheated on me, should we break up?

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Anonymous on Oct 27, 2016
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Maybe you could try talking to them first. Maybe you could work things out. However , trust is a huge part of relationships. So , the main thing to consider is if you will be able to continue trusting him/her. Doing what feels right may be the best option
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Anonymous on Nov 2, 2016
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Honestly, it all depends on the nature of the original relationship. It's a personal choice but, it's safe to say you won't be able to trust the person the same way. But holding onto them and working through it might work out better! Just consider if you're okay with what happened or not, if you're not you definitely deserve better, wether it means getting your partner to change or breaking it off.
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Anonymous on Nov 13, 2016
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It all depends on the circumstances. Humans make mistakes, and as humans, we should learn to forgive. But forgivness does not mean you still have love. So it's up to you to decide if they're worth it.
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uniquecreature41 on Nov 18, 2016
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That all depends on 2 things, quite separately; can you forgive them and can you trust them again. If the answer to those questions is yes, then you might want to give them another chance. But it has to be conditional and it has to be something you have been honest with yourself about. Don't tel them that you trust them, it's fine and you've put it behind you if you haven't. All you're doing then is selling yourself short and everyone deserves to be with someone who loves them, cares for them and puts them first. If your partner compromised all that by going behind your back, have an honest conversation with yourself as well as them to see if there is a way past it for you.
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DylanListener on Dec 30, 2016
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i think that is a decision you have to make yourself and many factors influence your choice like if this is the first time and can you trust them. try weighing up the benefits of being with the person and the costs while considering the fact they have been unfaithful
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HeartofaPhoenix on Jan 26, 2017
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Whether you stay together or not is a personal decision and what was true for others may are may not be true for you. In my own experience that answer depends on whether or not you can forgive your partner and if your partner is truly repentant and can forgive themselves.
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creativeStrawberry72 on Feb 15, 2017
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When someone cheats, the other partner has trouble regaining trust in the partner that cheated so even if you stay together it is all about if you feel like you can move on from that betrayal.
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Anonymous on Feb 17, 2017
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Is this the first time? Are you gonna be able to forgive him/her? Are you sure? Can you move on? . Ask yourself those questions
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EveMarshal on Feb 23, 2017
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Yes! because its not worth it to fight anymore with a cheater. Forgive him/her then move on. Find a better one that's never cheat! which is honest, faithful and loyal to you.
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Anonymous on Feb 26, 2017
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It's not right for any one person to decide if you should break up but you should take a step back and look at the situation. Do I still love him/her? Would they cheat on me again? How often has this occurred? If they had any respect for me why did they cheat on me? After asking yourself some of those questions, then you should make the decision for yourself if you want to stay with your partner.
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