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My boyfriend or girlfriend cheated on me, should we break up?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 6, 2015
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You deserve a person who is NOT going to cheat on you. Someone who is going to be loyal no matter what and there is no excuse for cheating. Sadly, most people do not change over night and I doubt this person who cheated is an exception. If you want to be with someone who doesn't treat you like you deserve and stay loyal, than you can stay with this person. However, personally I think you should break up and do better. For all you know, you are missing the opportunity to find a guy who will always stay faithful. Yes, breakups are awful and scary, but through doing this you will gain confidence in yourself and self pride for standing up and going after something you deserve.
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Profile: PracticalMaple
PracticalMaple on Dec 11, 2015
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discuss it with them, find what you both agree on and take it from there, its not up to anyone else but the both of you to decide if you should be together or not
Profile: ManCho28
ManCho28 on Dec 11, 2015
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If you can still trust them and they are willing to become better! Don't otherwise yea definitely!/it might hurt but it will be worth it
Profile: BreannaMarie
BreannaMarie on Dec 12, 2015
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Definitely have an honest conversation with your partner - every situation is different. There is no one-size-fits-all answer for this kind of thing.
Profile: softMermaid10
softMermaid10 on Dec 12, 2015
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Calm down and talk to each other before making any decision. It could be for real or it could be a misunderstanding but whatever it is, it is best to talk calmly. No matter what happens, life is always a learning curve.
Profile: helpfulIcicle27
helpfulIcicle27 on Dec 12, 2015
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think what do you want really.U know better wht is right for you.I will help u to go with your path.
Profile: peacefulReeds21
peacefulReeds21 on Dec 12, 2015
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You should think about the root reasons about why did they cheat on you. You can directly talk to them about this and show them that you have affection for them. Hopefully you will get your answer.
Profile: Mary24
Mary24 on Dec 12, 2015
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You should listen to what they have to say first. Look into your heart, don't just ask a stranger for the answer. It all depends on your relationship.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 13, 2015
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I think it's be best to talk to them before taking any action first. There's a possibility there's another story to it. Maybe you think he/she's cheating but actually he/she hasn't been. It's always better to clarify first. If he/she is indeed cheating, then I guess.... breaking up might be a good option. It's hard getting over it for sure cause you were probably very committed to that relationship, but relationships are two-way. If they're one-way on your part, you'll just end up hurting more. Definitely apply it to your situation before taking this advice :)
Profile: unicorn82
unicorn82 on Dec 13, 2015
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Talk about why it happened in the first place before you proceed. There must be a reason behind the action. If it's a habit then, donit for your own sanity
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