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My boyfriend or girlfriend cheated on me, should we break up?

Profile: amandaroxanne
amandaroxanne on Nov 7, 2015
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I believe there is always a second option. Every situation is different. However, there are boundaries. I would love to explore this with each individual to understand the circumstances. No two people are alike & it is important to compromise. However, it is important not to compromise yourself in the meantime. (:
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Profile: Mollyamber101
Mollyamber101 on Nov 8, 2015
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talk it out, let them say their side of the story first, if you cannot trust them.. then do what is best for you.
Profile: eleanor0610
eleanor0610 on Nov 8, 2015
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It's completely up to you and how your relationship works. You should ask yourself how you feel about your partner as of right now and how ready you are to forgive them. Relationships are incredibly personal and there is no right answer to any question. It's down to you to decide what happens in your life. Perhaps you could communicate to your partner your feelings and ask them to do the same. Why did they cheat? Was it a mistake? Are they unhappy? You can love someone so much but love isn't always enough. There needs to be trust, mutual understanding, romance, a common goal. I can't tell you whether you should break up. You're the only one who gets to make that decision.
Profile: Shikoba12
Shikoba12 on Nov 9, 2015
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im sorry to say but many unfaithful partners tend to be repeat offenders. sometimes we don't know why our partners are unfaithful but one thing that is certain is that we are all entitled to be loved and respected and if your partner is cheating on you, they don't deserve you. you can spend hours days, months analysing the situation, trying to put pieces together or you can leave them on the floor and move on. there are billions of people in this world that could make you happier. you deserve so much more :)
Profile: sweetlinda22
sweetlinda22 on Nov 11, 2015
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If the incident is affecting your relationship or has altered the course of your relationship and you find it hard to look past the issue. counselling could be an option especially if both of you would like to try and resolve the issue.
Profile: musicalDew34
musicalDew34 on Nov 11, 2015
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Definately... neva give them last chance... if they did once they will do it again... and always remember there are many fish in the sea...so move on
Profile: CoolVerse
CoolVerse on Nov 13, 2015
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Yes, In my experience a cheating girlfriend will always be a cheater. Both person comes to an agreement on being in a relationship takes a lot of energy and effort. If you are not satisfied with a single person its better not to be in a relationship at all. Its better to break up a cheating girlfriend than to be caught cheating and break your heart.
Profile: mjff8
mjff8 on Nov 15, 2015
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Unfortunately I can't give you advice but I can give you some help.try talking to them discussing why they did what they did.
Profile: chamomilewizard
chamomilewizard on Nov 15, 2015
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Absolutely. If they cannot commit to you, then why stay with them? It will only cause you pain if you do.
Profile: ProudBohemian
ProudBohemian on Nov 15, 2015
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I always think that a person make mistakes. But i will not take him/her back. I can forgive that person, just that
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