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My boyfriend or girlfriend cheated on me, should we break up?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 1, 2015
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Yes. If he's done it once, he can do it again. You don't deserve someone who cheated on you in the first place.
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fruityIris44 on Sep 22, 2015
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When one partner in a relationship cheats it is a break of trust. Both the partner's emotions run high and the one who was cheated on has all types of conflicting emotions trying to understand why her/his partner cheated. Questions like, Is it because of me, changes in me, reduced attraction, etc. My personal experience is cheating is because of an emotional disconnection between the two partners and often subconscious hidden motivations. The important step to take is to talk openly about how this happened and to try and see if there is a chance to heal through the communication. Do little things to bring back the trust and it is hard to build trust again. There are cases where one cheats because of lack of emotional connection and can heal, while there are other cases where the relationship may have drifted afar. Take your time to discover your true feelings and communicate with your partner. In the end the decision depends on your feeling on how much you want the relationship to continue and how open your partner is and demonstrates openness and remorse for his/her actions. I hope this helps.
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Anonymous on Sep 22, 2015
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If he cheated then you should definitely break up.. what they did is absolutely wrong. You wont be able to trust them again.
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Anonymous on Sep 27, 2015
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You definitely should, cause a cheater will always remain a cheater no matter what so i suggest that u do break up with him
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Anonymous on Oct 22, 2015
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I do not feel as though there is a clear-cut answer to this. It all depends on the situation, the person, how much this affected you, and it especially depends on your values. If your partner does not see the problem with what they've done, or does not understand why you're upset/angry/annoyed, breaking up is probably worth considering- because this may happen again. However, if he/she is remorseful, this may be something you can talk about and move on from
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Anonymous on Oct 22, 2015
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yes cause noone could ever change if he cheat one time means we will do it again and again so better to move on
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Poohwee99 on Oct 22, 2015
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If you want to give a second chance to see if he/she repent, then go ahead, but if you think its unforgettable. break up
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hollzster1 on Oct 23, 2015
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Before you make a quick decision, discuss it with him. Ask him questions to help you understand the situation. when you've discussed it, you can make the decision that's best for you
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snugglyOcean68 on Oct 23, 2015
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That is for you and only you to decide. In my opinion you shouldn't stay with a person if you won't be able to forgive them and let them earn your trust again. You should also think about whether or not the person deserves a second chance.
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Anonymous on Oct 23, 2015
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what do you feel inside? being an unhealthy relationship will just cause more pain to you in the end.
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