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My best friend hates me now.How do I cope with this?

Profile: SupportivePaintings
SupportivePaintings on Feb 26, 2018
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While you may be hurting right now, you can try coping with this situation by talking to someone you feel comfortable with, such as a parent, teacher, relative or another peer.
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Profile: EasyListening0920
EasyListening0920 on Feb 25, 2020
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I have been through this experience personally and I can honestly say that it sucks. I won't sugarcoat it when I say that it is an awful feeling for anybody that has been through this. The way that I have coped is by focusing on the positive experiences that we had and letting bygones be bygones. Don't waste time trying to get them to be friends with you again. Focus your energy on a new friendship that maybe you have neglected or on a project that will help you in a positive light. There will be more friends down the road, but your mental health should always be your main focus and priority.
Profile: CocoaKhaleesi
CocoaKhaleesi on Mar 13, 2018
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Accept that your best friend may be stressed and that may not have anything to do with you. (If it does, apologize and attempt to reconcile when appropriate.) Show this person love and support with a bit of distance. The stressful period will not likely last forever, and the friendship can continue after space has been given. If the stressful period lasts longer, at some point, your friend may remember your efforts to be loving and supportive and may decide to reconnect.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 3, 2019
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People change and time heals. Be strong and know that its not your fault and that you have given your 110% in the relationship. As you grow learn from the past and make a better future for yourself. It will seem all hard and pain now but in time you will see that time heals all wounds and makes u wiser.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 27, 2023
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The best thing you could do is if you have social media just block them. You're probably feeling hurt, confused, lonely and angry all at once. I have been here too and it's horrible so my thoughts are with you! For me, I had to make peace with it. It sounds silly but unfortunately there's not much we can do to try and win them back. If someone can go from being your best friend to all of a sudden hating you then they probably don't care about you as much as they should, and you're probably better off without them :) Seek people who actually care for you, and want to spend time with you
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