Is venting a good way to move on? how long should it take to move on?
Anonymous
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Jul 28, 2015
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Venting is a good way to get out emotion and to help yourself solve problems. Sometimes talking it out is the best way to solve a problem.
Brittneym101
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Aug 11, 2015
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Venting is a good way to try to move on. When it comes to getting over someone there is no set date/time. Like I've mention in a couple of other Q&A's it can take weeks, months, days and even years just to get over someone and you may never get over them. Every individual has a mind/heart of their own and your feelings for the other individual may have to go away on it's own. Nobody, but you can say when it's time to move on and only you will know how long it will take you. It just depends on how you really felt about this person and how the relationship was.
mscoxie
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Aug 31, 2015
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Venting your problems to someone you trust and who cares about you, is always helpful. There isn't a set time frame for people to move on; everyone gets through things at their own pace.
Anonymous
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Sep 7, 2015
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Personally, I think that venting is a good way to move on, but it can also cause many hard feelings between a couple. If venting to your friends/ family, you are expressing how you feel and letting all emotions out. However this could start to make you resent your ex partner, if you're constantly venting about things that have upset you that they did. Overall I would say that venting is a good way to move on, because you're getting everything off your chest and the person you're venting to is able to show you support.
In my opinion, I would say that it takes atleast 4 months to even start to get over someone, that's if you even do. Sometimes you never get over somebody, if the relationship was very real and an emotional connection was made, sometimes you just learn to live without them in your life, and learn how to be happy without them.
Tinygreentreefrog1234
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Sep 22, 2015
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Venting is a very good way to relieve excess stress just be sure to keep your situation in perspective. Ask yourself if the situation is worth stressing over. If it is get help from friends, family, coworkers, teachers, chat lines, group chat, listeners, and mental health professionals. Use and do what you need to feel like your self and live a better life. It takes a while to get over things. Don't put pressure on yourself. Take your time and go at your own pace.
Anonymous
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Nov 30, 2015
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Venting is good as it sorts your thoughts. It will bring you perspective hearing your thoughts out loud. Furthermore, the time it takes is different for every situation, I've seen people taking mnths for a relationship that lasted just one month itself. If you are heavily invested emotionally it will just take a long time. Try finding things to keep you distracted, things that will make you happy and remember why things didn't work, all the time. Don't blame yourself, remind yourself that things just aren't meant to be and that you deserve someone with who it all will be right.
shiningCherry13
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Dec 14, 2015
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Venting is definitely a very good way to move on, since losing the extra baggage definitely helps. Time taken to move on differs from person to person. Venting decreases this duration considerably :)
Resilience221
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Dec 19, 2015
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I think that sometimes it is hard to understand our own emotions, and having someone we trust to talk to helps us figure out how we feel. Also, moving on can be very hard because of the positive feelings you might still feel towards your ex. Having a second perspective can help us separate the good parts of the past relationship from the bad parts.
I can't say how long it will take for you to move on. I know that it can be really frustrating and that you wish you could just put this aside, but take your time and try to remind yourself why the relationship ended.
sweetCupcake26
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Feb 2, 2016
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After sadness , get mad , angry , depressed , cry and eat a lot then deny and lie to yourself , only then you will make peace with accepting the matter to finally jump to something better
MatthewMurdock
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Jan 9, 2017
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Venting is a great way to let all your feelings out and definetly helps when moving on. The amount of time it takes to move on differs, it can take from weeks, to months, even a year maybe. Usually for most people it doesn't take longer than a few months.
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