Is it still worth trying if he/she broke up with me several times?
hopegrace8
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Jul 21, 2018
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Breaking up is hard process but when the same person is breaking up with you and you going back to the same thing, i think and own experience has taught me that you have to take moment and say is this worthed cause your heart gets broken by the same person and you not able to let go. It will make you depressed and feeling you have done something wrong.
Nichole121002
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Aug 1, 2018
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Probably not. If they really loved you/ wanted to be with you they would've never broke up with you in the first place. Don't waste your time on someone that doesn't want youâ¤
kyllas
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Mar 27, 2019
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Sorry to be harsh, but I don't believe so. If they continuously are hurting you, it doesn't seem like it is worth it. It may hurt in the beginning, especially if you are used to their support in your life. However, you need to consider the long-term and how you might be permanently affected if you continue to have your heart broken. It could lessen your trust in relationships even if a new person is perfect for you. If they keep breaking up with you, then they most likely don't want to have you in a relationship, but they want to keep you in their life. Keep that in mind.
EmpatheticSeashell007
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Sep 4, 2019
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Would you really want to be with someone if you were the one who broke up with them several times? If they are letting you go so easily, do they even care? Or is it because you always gravitate back to them? Is this a connection or just your availability? If it were a connection, would it be severed so many times? You already know the answer to this. Deep down inside, you know you deserve better and if you don't, you should know. Because you honestly do deserve someone who is afraid of losing you, not someone who can up and leave then come back whenever.
kindTouch2324
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Apr 19, 2020
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Personally I do not think it is worth trying. I think that it is obvious that the other person in the relationship has one foot out the door if not both and uses you as a comfort item. I think that after a 2nd chance a person does not deserve any more chances. Give your a heart a chance to find someone that is all in rather than a person that is halfway out and disconnected. Compare it to a pair of shoes. If shoes are super uncomfortable every time you wear them are you going to keep wearing them or get rid of them. I would let them go and find a new home.
herefory0u
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Jul 8, 2020
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No, it's really not. You're wasting your time, this person is clearly messing you around, being indecisive and that's really not fair on you! Think bout your mental health and well being. You don't deserve to be left in a constant loop of uncertainty. It's not a healthy relationship if you're constantly breaking up. It's normal to have arguments now and again but to break up several times is a red flag.
You deserve to be in a stable relationship were you are able to talk to each other about any problems you may have and work it out together.
Euphrosynesmessenger
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Aug 5, 2020
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i had been in love several times before. i looked at a person and thought “this person is cool, but love feels awfulâ€. i was naive and young. but i kept fighting so hard for a feeling that doesn’t make me feel happy. when i was with my ex boyfriend, i was in a bad place mentally. he would think i was “less fun†because i wouldn’t hang out as much. so he would hang out with other girls and cheat on me. looking back, i fought for that relationship because i thought that was the right thing to do. now, several years later i’m dating someone else. we’ve been together for two years and we always try to understand each other’s point of view. things aren’t always sunshine and rainbows, in fact we took a break in the middle for a month because of our personal mental health issues. but at the end, we BOTH wanted each other. we both realized the value we hold for each other, and we both worked hard to be what we needed for each other and ourselves. it comes down to the person you’re with and how much you love each other. in the first relationship i talked about, we didn’t love each other but we still were together. that caused conflict, betrayal and the relationship went nowhere. but in the second scenario, we ended up being happier than ever after putting in extra work and energy to understand each other’s needs. don’t stay for someone just because you think you have to. stay because you love them, and they love you too. stay because you see yourself with nobody else. stay because they respect and love you. i hope that helps!
Anonymous
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Apr 30, 2015
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It's a lost cause. Breaking up creates so much negativity that it becomes a struggle to hold on to and remember the good times.
vivalalivia
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Oct 23, 2016
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It all depends on your breaking point. We can take only so much before we break. Make sure it doesn't take a toll on your everyday life. Have a serious conversation with him/her to see where you both stand.
Anonymous
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Oct 26, 2016
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No, if it doesn't work out then you should give up after sometime. Maybe you're not meant to be and you're destined to find someone better.
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