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Is it still worth trying if he/she broke up with me several times?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 30, 2015
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Not really. Though everyone deserves a 2nd chance we also need stability by someone who cares enough
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Profile: mayssamk
mayssamk on Feb 22, 2016
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you have to remember this: if you broke up once, twice, three times - there's always a reason behind it. keep that in mind, maybe you just don't fit together. i can't judge if something is worth it or not because i don't know the whole situation, but it's important to keep in mind that if it's happened it was for a reason, and that getting back together may not always be a solution.
Profile: pureatheart25
pureatheart25 on Sep 21, 2015
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No sorry but in my personal opinion I think if you keep breaking up again and again, theres a reason behind that, its n ot accidental
Profile: ZoeH
ZoeH on Oct 30, 2016
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This one is tricky. There are off and on relationships that have worked out eventually and there are ones that don't. I think that the important part is to look at why you broke up. If it was something silly or not important, then maybe you should consider getting back together. If you do though, you must make a point of setting a condition: if they break up with you for a stupid reason again, it will be over and that will be final. This will encourage your partner to really really think before they make that mistake again. If it wasn't for a silly reason, then just focus on why you cannot be together. Most likely, that same conflict between you would cause you two to break up again.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 1, 2016
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If you still love him and think you can solve the issues, have a talk wit him and talk it out. In a relationship, commuication is very important
Profile: wishfulVision48
wishfulVision48 on Aug 31, 2015
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I say there seems to be a reocurring pattern which may be signalling that there is something deeper to work on. If you feel that can be done then it may be worth trying again, however it may be time for you both to sit down together and talk honestly together about what yiu bith want now and in thw future. The answers will help you decide where to go from there but on your thebexpert on your relationship and how to best approach this together. Good luck and stay strong. The outcome, although may not initially seem it, probably will be the best for you both.
Profile: Calminesa
Calminesa on May 1, 2015
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Do what's best for you. Listen to your heart and mind not just one or the other. Because if you dedicate that time to your decision making, you will definitely come to some sort of conclusion.
Profile: RainyDaysLover
RainyDaysLover on Feb 2, 2017
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It is a hard decision to take.. I myself had to make it, but I guess it all comes down to how you feel about the person in the moment.althought, even if you love his/her company, maybe it is not worth it to keep hurting yourself.. If you have a thought in the back of your mind telling you something bad night happen again, be careful, but I like to believe those instinct thoughts are most of the times right. I hope I somehow helped
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 19, 2015
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It really depends on you. But one thing some people try in situations like this is they make a list of all the pros and cons of your relationship. If the pros outweigh the cons then it might be worth to keep trying, but if it's the other way around maybe it would be better to just let go and move forward.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 15, 2018
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In my experience, no. I have been lead on in that way and had friends in the same boat. It ends up being a game... as if they are dangling a carrot and you're the horse chasing after it. It is as if you are a back-up plan. It is not healthy to remain in such a relationship. You deserve someone compassionate and willing to work things through without the threat of coming and going.
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