Is it still worth trying if he/she broke up with me several times?
calmSky3414
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Jul 23, 2020
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If you really care about this person, it might be, but please don’t forget that you are also worthy of love and care. If you care for them more than they care for you, it’s sometimes worth it to spend sometime apart, and sometimes you will find someone else who cares about you even more and that you care for, too. Relationships aren’t one sided, both partners should be happy with the relationship. There may come a time where someone cares for you more than you care for them, so try to think about how you might feel if they kept trying to get back with you when you broke who with them several times already. In my experience, I’ve found myself in much happier relationships when walking away from one like this. It’s hard, but there’s so many people on 7 cups here to support you during this. Don’t forget that you are worthy of someone who cares for and loves you as much as you love them.
Anonymous
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Jul 25, 2020
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Like most relationship issues, this depends largely on the people involved. It's important to reflect on two things: do you feel respected, and do you still have a complete sense of trust? Answering these questions may help. After going through multiple breakups, it can be difficult to maintain a feeling of security and support, and this is crucial in a healthy relationship. If you feel that either of these has been lost, then it probably isn't worth pursuing. There's no easy answer, but have the courage to believe that whatever decision you make will work out. In the end, it's important to do what's right for you.
Petra1234
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Jul 31, 2020
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First question is how do you feel about it and what you need from yourself and this person in this moment. Breakups are always difficult experience and changes our trust towards this person. But not knowing the situation I can only guess. It depends on many different things. Why does this person breaks up? Why she or he comes back? How do you feel about it? What makes you want to be in the relationship with this person? I cannot give you any answer but we can try to figure out, how this situation works. There are no rules set.
colorfulArrow7626
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Aug 30, 2020
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When considering if it is worth trying, it is a good idea to ask yourself, why you want to be in a relationship with them. If they broke up with you many times, it is likely they might do it again. If you think that the relationship is that valuable to you, then I think you should pursue it, but not without considering this: why do they keep breaking up with you? Is it because they are trying to manipulate you? Is it because they had another love interest which they pursued but came back to you? Or maybe, is it possible they wanted more out of the relationship than was there for them, but they still loved you and that's why they got back together with you?
It is important for you to know exactly why the relationship ended so many times, so you can inform yourself as to why they broke up with you. It might be something you or they can change - it might not!
It is probably a good thing to consider whether or not both parties have changed enough so that the relationship might have a better chance at success.
Anonymous
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Sep 9, 2020
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I don't think it's still worth it since it has a reason that they broke up several times. I understand that it can be challenging to get away from a person you have deep feelings for but if they already broke up several times this is a clear sign for that they don't value you as much as you probably value them. Trying it again could end with another breakup again, which is quite likely to happen since you already broke up several times before. But by trying it all over again you invest energy into that person and into that relationship, which could have been better invested.
Anonymous
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Sep 19, 2020
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relationships are always worth trying, especially if it’s with someone you care deeply for. However, it’s important to consider the overall well-being of both parties in the relationship. It’s always best to perhaps consider why break ups are frequent; is the communication faulty? Perhaps there are personal matters that your partner is going through that they don’t dislike? Sometimes it’s not a matter of who is worse than others but rather the compatibility between partners. It’s worth holding onto things you cherish but I hope you consider your wellbeing and what you go through yourself as you embark this on and off journey with your relationship. It’s important to remember to put yourself first, above anything else.
Anonymous
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Oct 23, 2020
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Only if that person has abandonment issues and you know, deep inside, they really love you but are too scared to get hurt or be abandoned. Which at times, is the scariest thing for someone that's used to people leaving them. Yes, I know it's kinda sad. BUT sometimes is really worth trying out, showing them you're staying beside them, they might change their mind.
But if you know the person you're fighting for just breaks up with you 'cause they wanna be with someone else and then goes back to you, it is not worth it. It really depends.
SoftKat
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Nov 26, 2020
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Sometimes it can be difficult to tell whether or not trying is still worth it, especially if you've been broken up with several times. It's important to take your mental health into consideration when you think about this. Would you be happy with this person again? Do you get anxious when you get back with them again? Constantly trying with someone who has a history of hurting you or leaving you can put a lot of strain on you mentally. It's important to make sure that you are putting your feelings into consideration, and doing what you think would benefit yourself as well
Godzilla29
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Jan 2, 2021
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Personally, I would have to say no. In my mind, I am the type to say it didn't work the first few times and probably won't work the next time. But in the end its all up to you. Its your love life and if you are happy than you are happy. Although I would Personally be hesitant, only because in my mind their is a reason why it didn't work out in the past and may not work in the future. Not to say that it won't work, just that I would say maby try to find someone else.
Anonymous
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Feb 19, 2021
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It is always hard to know what the right answer is in this situation. You are in control of this situation and can decide what you would like to happen. Take a few minutes to reflect on what has happened in this past. Were you happy? Do you feel it's worth another chance? Remember, your happiness is the most important thing. A relationship is a two way streak and should not be one-sided. If you believe it'll work then go for it! If you believe the other person has not changed, do what you believe is best for you! You know your story better than anyone and will make a good choice. Always know that you have someone cheering you on for continued happiness! :)
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