Is it still worth trying if he/she broke up with me several times?
soothingTouch4776
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Apr 16, 2020
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I would say no .. If you've proceeded to break up this many times that's a likely chance that the relationship would end up very toxic if you were to try again especially if your experiencing a lot of arguing which wouldn't surprise me if you were.. The best thing to do is stay friends if possibly , take a break . Maybe see other people and try again in a year or two of you feel it's possible it may be hard but typically it's the best way around it , I hope this answers your question and you make a sensible and safe decision , good luck !
justbree
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Apr 22, 2020
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Know that it's normal to feel anxiety, frustration, sadness, and every emotion in between after a breakup. However, the time following a breakup can give us a great opportunity to look inward. This is a time to take a step back and reflect (or even make a list) of the pros and cons in your relationship and ask yourself some difficult questions like "Why do I want to get back together with my ex?" Or "How can I work on my self-love?". After really reflecting and taking some time for yourself you may find a different perspective on why you might want to or not want to get back together.
After all, this choice is very personal and entirely up to you and your partner. For now, allow yourself to feel some of those difficult emotions and make sure to practice self-care. Take care!
Anonymous
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Apr 24, 2020
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I don't think it would be bit you are in charge of your life decisions. You know lots and lots more about the situation than me. You can make your own decision. Personally, I don't think it would be worth going back to that same person who broke your heart continuous times. I feel as if it would be more ache and pain. Besides there are plenty of fish in the sea, why keep going back to the same clown fish when you could go to a sea star. Someone who is bright and joyful would be the best person for you.
Anonymous
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May 6, 2020
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It's important here to understand exactly why they broke up with you. This will be a difficult but necessary conversation to have with your ex; if you're not clear about what went wrong, then nothing will change and the underlying reasons for the multiple breakups will remain in place, unresolved. To draw an analogy: no one would attempt to take a car that has repeatedly broken down back in the road without fixing it first. If your ex is clear that they cannot envisage anything changing, however, then trying to get back with them would not be something to pursue.
Anonymous
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May 16, 2020
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If you love each other it'll be worth it. Arguments happen but it'll make your relationship stronger once it passed. You'll realize that petty fights are just part of your relationship. It will pass and when you pull through then that would be great. I have been in a similar situation on and off relationship and after five years we are still in a relationship I cannot bear to part with him anymore because I realized that we love each other and we don't want to be defeated by those small arguments. I hope that I have helped you with this
EmpathyIsEverything
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May 31, 2020
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Nobody can tell You whether it is worth it for you. Only you know that. But in my experience if you keep breaking up there's something wrong. Take a look at yourself take a look at what reason you would have to get back together with this person Make a pros and cons list and be honest about it because there's nothing worse than being in a relationship that shouldn't be one. You need to make sure that you're caring about yourself and you need to make sure that the person that you're interested in actually cares about you too.
heyyourokay1111
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Jun 3, 2020
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It’s definitely not worth it. The relation might be too toxic which is causing fights and breakups. It’s good to move on from the toxicity and live a healthy life. It takes time to get over but be proud of yourself. I’m sure you’re feeling really sad at the moment but I swear you’ll find someone better who won’t keep breaking up why you over small things. He’ll or she’ll know how to care about you and will protect you at all costs. Until then keep your self happy and healthy. Keep yourself engage in activities you love and admire.
supportall15
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Jun 18, 2020
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Honestly, I understand wanting to hold on to the good memories of the past and not being able to understand or get over a relationship, but it’s all about what’s best for you. Was this relationship good for your mental and physical health? Was this relationship worth your time? Were you treated as though you deserve the world, because you do? Also, take into consideration what the other person wants, because they might not want to get back into the relationship and if they don’t that’s okay! There are plenty of people who would love you for who you are, sometimes we have to understand our limits and at what point do the cons outweigh the pros.
mentalhealthhelp2020
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Jun 28, 2020
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Love is a difficult feeling, when we truly love someone we can’t manage to see the flaws in our relationship burn if this person caused you to go through deep sadness then it becomes toxic, you are the one that know what isn’t best for you but try to make decisions that you know will make you happy in the future and help you progress.
Letting go of a loved one is really hard and takes a lot of courage but it sometimes is necessary in order to find our own peace and happiness, if we haven’t found happiness with a certain person maybe our soulmate is still out there looking for us.
TheBestHugs
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Jul 15, 2020
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Take a long look at why you want to continue on with this person. What are the pros and cons of trying to work our a broken relationship - X 3 - ? What is the worse case scenario if you do not get back together? What is the best case scenario if you do not get back together? What is really important is your health. Your heart, mind, and soul health. You must take care of yourself first. Is this person going to hurt you again? How does that make you feel about your self? Do you trust yourself? Respect yourself? Accept yourself? Love yourself. You must learn to love yourself first. The answer is you are worth the best of everything.
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