Is it still worth trying if he/she broke up with me several times?

It depends on what you mean by "worth trying". If you mean, keep doing whatever it is you've been doing until now, that doesn't seem to make sense. Repeating something that doesn't work over and over rarely gets a successful outcome. If by "worth trying" you mean exerting efforts to increase your ability to work together to understand each other, where the issue is, and how to mutually address it, that's something else. If you do mean the latter, it might be a worthwhile exercise even if the relationship doesn't work out as you hoped. Best of luck to you!

Honestly I’d say no. There’s no hurt in trying, but if they’ve broke up with you more than once, I’d say that it’ll end up the same way every time. If you truly love them then go for it. Otherwise, I wouldn’t keep on trying. I’d say this is a tough question. You never know if you get back together if it’ll work out or not. You might be with someone you truly love, or you’ll get your heart broken. Honestly it’s all up to you. It also depend if they’re worth all the effort to be with, or if they’re just a jerk.

This is a question I have recently asked myself. The answer isn't a simple yes or no. You must look within and ask yourself, "Is he/she worth it to me?" "What are my feelings for them? Is it just temporary? Do I see myself with them in the long haul?" Another thing to consider is will both of you be happy and be able to put forth the effort needed to make the relationship work. It is not fair to keep hurting yourself or the other person if both aren't willing to try and fight for the relationship to work.

If he/she is THE one, if you feel you could have done more, if it's not stalking or harrassing them already, then yes. It is worth it, if you are both happy in the end. It of course also plays a role in this story the reason you guys broke up that many times. If it involves huge disrespect, pain, even physical, then my answer of course changes. So it's really hard to say, without any information on the side. In my case, with my crush, I'm never letting him go, even though we broke up three times already. He is the love of my life.

My experience with ladies who broke up with me is posed in a short question: Is it worth it to try to join with a lady who continues to break up with you and hurts you emotionally? My personal opinion is I have broken off relationships, and it has done the world of good for me. Or, I ask, is it worth beating a dead horse? Speaking bluntly, it is not worth it at all. I say, I move on and spend much time treating myself with kindness and love, and forgiveness if necessary. That is really what I think and feel.

I have been dating the most caring guy since I was at school, when we met he was in the year above me. We've been together for nearly 3 years. We do everything together, holidays, nights away, meals out he was so generous and caring to me. We did occasionally go out separate but he always picked me up in his car and stayed at mine, Things have been a but tense for the past few weeks, he was starting Uni last Saturday, He told me his feeling were fading for a day but that night he said he loves me and couldn't ever leave me. The night before he went to uni he cried like a baby, He said we can get through the next 8 months before I joined him at the same uni. We looked at accommodation for next year. He was there two days, texting me everything after freshers telling me how he missed and loved me. We have never been apart. Then he FaceTimed me and said I was controlling I asked if he had met someone and he went mad and ended the call. He deleted all our pictures off social media and I text him but he ignored me. After a second attempt I begged him to tell me what had happened he said he no longer loved me, he didnt want me anymore and he was attracted to someone. He has been drinking heavily every night which he never does normally. Today he text to see if I'm ok. This is the second time but it's not like him. The partying and alcohol has changed him.

Ask yourself why you want him/her back despite everything. Are you still in love with the person or is it more about the memories or the things you once shared? Sometimes it is better to let go and let things take their natural course. Things change, as do people. That doesn’t mean that what you shared together isn’t valuable or meaningful. But sometimes letting go makes space for new experiences, while being able to hold the memories you had with this person dear. Whatever you choose to do, keep in consideration your own and the other persons well being. I wish you all the best!

In my honest opinion, there's a point where you have to step back and honestly question whether or not working on a relationship where one side obviously isn't reciprocating your affections is healthy for anyone. If they've broken up with you multiple times, I think that it's pretty plain to see that they either have some things they need to work out themselves, possibly things that you can't help them with, or they simply just don't want to be with you anymore. Besides respecting their wishes, you want to have some self respect as well and try to realize that you're not doing yourself any good by putting your all into something that won't benefit your mental health positively. Relationships are a lot of hard work that, when both sides work together, can be a beautiful thing with an amazing product of love. But if you're not right for each other, or things just keep failing time and time again, I would tell you to let yourself leave, just for a while, and see if you really need this sort of relationship in your life.

When life and your Self is trying to tell you something is not working, it is best to listen. The best recipe for insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. True love doesn't look like this. It is best to stop wasting your time, and work on understanding why you were attracted to someone like this in the first place. Ask yourself: Why do you want a relationship? The answers lie within you, not the other person. If you are depending on the other person to bring you happiness, then you have your answer. Ensure that only you is responsible for your happiness before getting into a relationship. A relationship is very easy if both partners are already healthy before you get into one.

Well the best person to find the answer for this is just "You". But here are some points to consider. 1.Who is blamed every time a brake up happens? and the other person took the blame always or often or equally as you were blamed? 2.Are there any instances the other person realized his/her mistakes and said sorry for being on wrong side? 3.Are there any instances where the other person initiated a dialogue of compromise? If you get Yes as the answer for all these 3 questions mentioned above, you can still try to build the relation. But this also demands an honest feed back from your side first for the above questions. Other wise better to get parted and focus on better things in life.