Is it still worth trying if he/she broke up with me several times?

In my honest opinion, I don't think its still worth trying because if he or she loved you they wouldn't be doubting your relationship and continuously hurting you. My best friend is going through this same issue right now and it kills me to see her hurting and I don't want you having to deal with the same thing . Break ups are hard but trust me you'd much rather have somebody who genuinely loves you and have to wait for them than to be in a toxic relationship.. Thats gonna only keep hurting you.

The question is, "Is it even worth trying?" He/she broke up with you several times yes, but do you think it will work out this time? What makes you think so?

Sweetheart let me tell you something. If he/she broke up with you once I would leave them. I mean, they aren't worth it. You're a beautiful person and you deserve better

My thoughts are : No. They're not worth it. There's a reason that they keep breaking up with you. The idea of comfort with someone is easy to fall into and trying to get out of that idea can be difficult. But, it is self-harm to continue to go back and get hurt all over again. They are obviously not worth your time and I believe you would be better served in going to find someone who will appreciate you and not break up with you over and over.

I’m struggling with this now. My ex and I were together for 6 years and he broke up with me 4 time. He always cane back looking for me, asking for forgiveness, expressing how I was the love of his life and true love. I always took him back because I loved him and was mostly miserable without him. But after the 4th time, I met someone who should me that it was possible to love again, and that there is better love out there. That relationship didn’t last, but it served a purpose in showing me that I deserve love. My ex has come back asking me to take him back, asking for forgiveness and professing the same loving things. However, this time, I’m hesitant to try again, for two simple reason. Although I truly care about him and love him 1. I don’t trust him that he won’t break up with me again, and honestly I don’t want to go through the pain again. Each breakup was messy and hurtful. 2. I don’t see a future with him. There was too much pain and hurt caused. My family disapproves (although they would eventually, I think, accept) and I don’t ever want a relationship with his sister. Too much pain and hurt to overcome to really lead a healthy and productive relationship. This is my experience, and of course yours may be different. Perhaps there wasn’t a lot of pain or hurt experienced in each breakup. Ultimately you know what’s best for you. I would recommend that you at least give yourself time to heal. Give yourself time to heal and process what has happened between you two and your relationship. And focus on yourself (loving yourself, forgiving yourself, and being kind to yourself). Then make a decision that you know you will be content and happy with - one in which you know you are honoring yourself and your heart. Good luck.

No. You can not make someone love you. If they broke up with you several times, I know it's hard but you can't be with someone who doesn't love you back. You deserve better, you deserve someone who will ask you out several times, someone who adores everything about you, someone who looks at you like you're the only diamond in a world full of chalk. You deserve someone who loves EVERYTHING about you.

Only you can determine if it's worth trying, but I feel that it is still worth trying even is he/she broke up with you several times depending on why they kept breaking up with you and how long the relationship lasted each time. If it's a pattern and it happens every single time yall get back together then moving on maybe within your best interest. Breaks are ok, but constantly ending a relationship can be very hectic, depressing and cause havoc especially if you love this person.

well, is it worth getting your heart broken all the time? getting your hopes up for nothing? while there are more girls/boys out there?

If there are unpleasant situations then there are happy movement too .. if the love is real you should try again ... Relationships are made out of two people refusing to give up .. what matters is whos worth it

That really is a deeply personal decision. One question to ask would be if you are willing to give it another shot. It also depends on why there have been so many breakups. If happens every time there is a disagreement or when you don't behave in a manner that s/he likes, there is a real possibility the relationship in an unhealthy pattern.