Is it still worth trying if he/she broke up with me several times?
ShelbyN
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Aug 20, 2020
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I think that this varies on a person to person basis! I would say the amount of distress you feel is more important than the act itself. If you don't mind a relationship that is only present when it seems healthy, and prefer breaking up when it's not so you can each work on yourself, then it's valid to have that preference. The most important thing in determining if a relationship is healthy is communication and boundaries- if you feel strongly betrayed or hurt by your seperation, and fear it happening again in without respect for boundaries or clear communication, I would say no. But if you have a firm foundation to your relationship, can be honest with each other, and work together as a team, it may be worth trying. The most important thing is to be able to trust each other, and to have a goal of happiness and healthy behavior.
Magdalene138
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Apr 28, 2021
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I don't think so. You don't need to spend your time on a person who doesn't appreciate you as much as you appreciate them. If someone is leaving and starting the relationship, again and again, they probably have some unresolved issues on their own. You definitely deserve someone who is 100% sure about you and will treat you the way you deserve. Try asking the person for the reason of their doing and maybe you will also get an explanation or the closure you deserve.
From my own experience, my ex-boyfriend was doing this to me and it was really hard to walk away from him, but when I finally did, my friends were there to help me and after I moved on, I realized that there is no reason for anyone to stay in a relationship that makes them cry or just not feel good about themselves.
Anonymous
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Jul 23, 2021
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Honestly from my personal experience, it all depends on the two people involved and why it keeps happening. I would ask them why and do some positive reflection on the relationship as a whole to come to an agreement on how noth parties could make things better. You could try counselling, date nights to bring back the spark, and the simple things that just make your days better. It's all about how you look at things. Maybe your partner is lacking something in the relationship. If you can work together with them, you can improve and if they don't want to that is completely up to you.
KindBean2002
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Oct 13, 2016
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It depends on the reason. Maybe you can talk to them about the breakups and why they happen, or maybeyou can focus on a new crush
Anonymous
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Oct 13, 2016
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I would suggest that you weigh up the positives and negatives about this situation. Does this make you happy? Do you make each other happy? Do you feel joy when you are with her? Or do you feel as though she may end the relationship again? Sometimes it is better to move on, as hard as it can seem at the time. But if you truly love each other, try talking to her. Let her know how you feel.
Joner2016
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Nov 3, 2016
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It better be. If not, you woudn't have to go back to him/her since long back. But if you seriously think its not worth it, then push yourself a little harder than before.
Anonymous
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Nov 4, 2016
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Im not exactly allowed to give advice, but you should do what you think is best if you think it is worth trying then go for it if not then dont
PurpleUnicorns101
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Nov 6, 2016
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The answer to this question very much depends on how your relationship is with that person and why they keep breaking up with you. Ask yourself some questions on how you think your relationship with them is and about the reasons they leave you and if you want that or not. Just remember there are plenty of people here to chat with!
Anonymous
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Nov 9, 2016
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they say that things happen for a reason, maybe the multiple break ups is a sign - sometimes it's best to move on instead of going through pain and suffering multiple times.
senselessLife
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Dec 16, 2016
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if you feel good about trying it another time you should. but if you think you are not happy everytime he breaks up with you, you should get this negative attitude out of your life,
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