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Is it normal to still want to be in a relationship with someone after they break your heart?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 31, 2015
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Hello there. Yes it is very normal to still want to be in a relationship after they broke your heart. You loved them and it is very hard to get over that. But with the right help and support you will make it through this rough time.
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Profile: Zebrasarcastic
Zebrasarcastic on Jun 7, 2016
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That person said the right things and did the right things before breaking you're heart that's why you're hearts stuck to it
Profile: justIzzie
justIzzie on Dec 6, 2016
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For a while after a break up, I believe it is normal. Emotions do not just disappear overnight, despite any actions that your significant other might have done. Especially if the relationship was long term, it will be harder to rid yourself of all emotion. However, you must always have faith that in the near future, when you mind is ready to let go, you will be able to move on and you have to remember that you are never alone in this journey.
Profile: Letiza
Letiza on Feb 6, 2018
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Of course coz they leave a part in your heart that will always be there forever after all you shared good memories with him/her nothing wrong about that if you're still both single and loved each other might as well give it a shot again
Profile: amazingamethyst
amazingamethyst on Jan 10, 2022
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Yes, each person has a different reality and what a different normal looks like. I can not offer advice if you should get back into the relationship, but just remember to cherish the time you had with one another. It is important to remember the good parts, rather than fixate on the bad. A broken heart can heal with time and a different mindset. Please remember to be gentle with yourself and know you have a community here at 7 cups to help and support you!! We all are here to listen and help you in anyway possible. There are so many resources at 7 cups which you can use a form of care for yourself.
Profile: JustCallMeAce
JustCallMeAce on Aug 31, 2015
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Yes, if you have poured lots of time and effort into the relationship you'll still want to be with them after they've broken your heart, you'll get over it one day, just have to wait on it
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 4, 2017
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Yes, it's normal at times. The other party broke up doesn't mean that you are done with the love that you have for the other party. Until someone realize, until someone feels that she/he over it, the love can be still there and would want to be with the same person. It's normal.
Profile: AKelly
AKelly on Jan 30, 2018
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Yes, it is 100% normal. When you have a strong connection with someone, letting go isn't easy. It seems as though it's easier to forgive, than to throw it all away.
Profile: MrDoctorMan
MrDoctorMan on May 14, 2018
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Yes, you probably felt validated while in the relationship because maybe you had a strong connection, however once that connection is suddenly lost, you yourself will begin to feel empty without them. However do not get discouraged, you can move past this with the right support and on with your wonderful life!
Profile: annaox25
annaox25 on Aug 14, 2018
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This is a totally normal thing. Feeings don’t vanish after just a few days, weeks, months or even years. Sometimes they never go away.
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