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Profile: BlueSmurfette
BlueSmurfette on Feb 10, 2021
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Absolutely! Some people feel like it’s best to take breaks from relationships and that’s completely fine! It can be for many many differing reasons, as long as these breakups are done in a healthy manner and aren’t causing too much upset to any person involved. If it’s causing you too much grief and pain, getting in touch with a listener is a great idea. And as long as you’re both on the same page with things. As a person who has split with their now significant other in the past, we’re in a much better relationship for it now!
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 24, 2021
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I think it isn't normal not healthy to break up with someone you love multiple times. But it doesn't necessarily make the relationship toxic and it doesn't mean the couple can't overcome this situation. Each crisis needs to be analyzed individually so the couple can figure out if they are able to rebuild their relationship in a more solid ground or not. It's up to them to work on their problem and approach it's vulnerabilities through comunnication, mutual respect and caring. However, if they are unable to, breaking up all the time may indicate the relationship has no future and it might be better to end it.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 11, 2021
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It can be very confusing, and often quite distressing. Being uncertain about your relationship can take its toll on so many aspects of your life and can be really draining. This article will look at how people get caught in this loop, and how to break out of it, whatever that means! How Do We Get Stuck In The Cycle? Breaking Up: So, you and your partner broke up. People do that all the time. It’s horrible and it’s messy, even if you both do your best to end things on ‘friendly’ terms. You promise to give each other the space needed to move on, and agree to meet up as friends in the near future. While this sounds great, there’s quite a high chance that it won’t work that way. Why? Feelings. Feelings get in the way of everything, especially breakups. Some people will go on to live their own lives… after, that is, a few months of mourning and drunkenly trying to text their ex while their friends wrestle their phone from their hands.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 12, 2021
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That question is very hard to answer, it is normal in the sense of needing space sometimes but what is the reason specific you guys took breaks. I feel you should talk to a family friend about it, I think that would help you a lot. Personally I WOULF talk to my family or friends to see there point of view of the relationship because sometimes you can easily get manipulated into thinking your in a healthy relationship when in fact you might actually not be in. I think that would answer a lot of your questions. Hope this helped
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 26, 2021
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If your relationship is breaking up multiple times, you may question why. And possibly, is the relationship offering you more joy than heartache? What are you willing to do about it? Often, if it feels wrong, it's probably wrong. Your gut instinct is there to protect you. Sometimes we listen and sometimes we don't. Especially if you are emotionally invested, it may be more difficult to leave the relationship. Making relationships work is hard work that involves two or more people. If one is working on it and the other not, this may build resentment. Another alarm bell that might pop up is this.
Profile: Mignonette
Mignonette on Apr 7, 2021
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When it comes to relationships, it's best not to try to compare your partnership to someone else's, or to an idea of what is "normal." There are definitely couples who are "on and off" or break up several times. I was in a relationship where this was the case, but we were together for four years. Things ultimately didn't work out with this partner because we realized we needed to go on separate paths to keep growing. However, breaking up several times doesn't mean that you can't have a good long-term relationship. It might indicate that you have to identify what makes either of you feel you need to separate for a period of time and work that out, but it's very possible to pinpoint what you need to improve and work on that together. The main thing you need is to agree on continuing to work together.
Profile: MJ2911
MJ2911 on May 23, 2021
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The question is akin to "Is it normal to fall in love multiple times", the answer to which is you all know in your heart. It is love that sustains this world and it is love that keeps it going. And in this journey, we meet many people in various aspects of life. Some very similar to us, some not so, some very interesting to us, some not so. And many a times we might fall for one or the other, only to come to know after a while he/she/it is not what we perceived him/her/they to be. And it's no body's fault for the perceptions can deceive us at times. And many a times it is just the situation that is not merciful to us. But notwithstanding any thing else, YES it is normal to breakup multiple times and YES it is normal to fall in love multiple times. It just highlights our capability to forgive, move on, and experience again the warmth love brings with it.
Profile: DGStar1375
DGStar1375 on Jun 19, 2021
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Typically no, if you break up multiple times, maybe it's important to reevaluate the relationship or discuss how to improve issues within the relationship that cause multiple breakups. It's normal for couples to argue but if you argue to the point of breaking up multiple times there may be an underlying reason as to why that is. It's imperative to communicate with your partner about what's going on and your thoughts toward your relationship. Work through your issues to find a solution if you want to save the relationship. If you feel that separating helps your relationship then maybe it's not worth saving.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 9, 2021
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It's not uncommon to breakup mulitple times, but I think understanding why the breakups continue to happen is important. A healthy relationship is based on two people wanting to be there, working toward and for the same purpose. Continual breakups can leave one or both people feeling insecure and confused, trust becomes non-existant. Talking with your partner to figure out what you both want is key, but it may take work to change what's become a normal reaction to problems. Once you and your partner can feel confident to express your feelings, expressing your needs can come. If what you want is not the same, then deciding what is best for both of you is what needs to happen.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 1, 2021
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To start off, yes, it is normal. As we mature, we tend to change drastically, and that means that we won't always get along with our partners anymore, the relationship can feel tiring. However, it's still a bit of a red flag that the breakup is repeating itself. Try to analyze what is the commonality between them. What can you do better to make sure it doesn't happen any longer? Truly ask yourself- do you think you're ready for a new relationship? More than often, we have to work on ourselves before to committing to others, and that's okay.
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