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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 29, 2018
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The term normal can vary from person to person, time to time, situation to situation. I would say it's absolutely OK to breakup multiple time. The important part is to observe closely what was it that didn't go right and what went right in each relationship. Many a times you may keep attracting the same kind of relationships which would compel you to deal with the similar patterns of issues again and again... a particular unhealed part of you gets triggered repeatedly. It's better to look at it closely.. So that you will be clearer and more assured when you get in a relationship the next time.
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Profile: Cleopatra77
Cleopatra77 on Jan 17, 2019
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In my opinion, it is normal. Sometimes people need to take time apart to grow and learn things that the significant other may not be able to teach them. If they both come back together without fixing the issues that separated them in the first place, it is likely they will repeat the pattern of getting together and breaking up until they either decide to reconcile their differences and make it work, or decide their path lies elsewhere and move on. It takes patience, forgiveness, tolerance, and a whole lot of trust to maintain a healthy, long-term connection with someone. Relationships have their ups and downs, and I feel as long as you are in a safe situation and are happy, roll with the punches and enjoy the ride!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 19, 2019
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yeah it is but its not Always a good idea. i went back to my ex once and it wasnt worth it. the problems we had in our first relationship came back even stronger. this caused us to break up. this also caused me to get heartbroken, i ignored the fact that there were problems because i was in love. this was a bad mistake. now after the second break up i'll never go back. because the problems we faced will come back stronger and he is not worth the heart ache that going back will cause me, sooner or later,
Profile: ArchiveCold
ArchiveCold on Feb 13, 2019
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Relationships are difficult. Especially when you’re still figuring out what you’re actually looking for. It’s normal to try over and over with the same person. It can be especially hard to let someone, who made a significant impact in your life, go. It’s normal to want to keep coming back and trying again. Be very careful about doing so. Even though it’s normal, it can be very emotionally damaging. You can start feeling worthless, like somethings wrong with you, ect. The best thing you can do is openly communicate with your partner about how you’re feeling and the situation. Talk about why you two keep breaking up and what you can do to try and make the connection between you two stronger.
Profile: Clarisse29
Clarisse29 on May 1, 2019
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Yes it is absolutely normal to breakup multiple times! At times we just don’t gel that well with people and might not be comfortable or particularly happy in a relationship! You always come first and so if you’re breaking up multiple times, it’s okay. If there’s no you, there’s no relationship for you, take care of yourself first, that’s most important :) only then will you be able to take care of the things in the other spheres of your life. Self care is very important and at times it might be very hard to just find someone you just click with! So it’s okay to keep trying !
Profile: LondynRose
LondynRose on Jun 14, 2019
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When you are first getting to know someone it is normal to break out a few times. Every step and every change in a relationship causes a shift that may change the dynamics of your relationship. Anytime this happens it's normal that there may be some kind of conflict as things are going to be different for the both of you and you are going to have to adapt to how life is now together. What isn't healthy is when you are broken up more than you are together as this signals that you are happier without each other and could be displaying codependency
Profile: Ciera88
Ciera88 on Oct 20, 2019
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It depends on what the break ups are about. If it’s about little things like him not texting fast enough or playing too much PS4 then you shouldn’t worry about it too much. If it’s on things like cheating or he’s not treating you right then you need to sit down and talk to him about how you feel. Communicating your feelings gives you a chance to explain to him how you feel and way for him to acknowledge how you feel about the situation. Overall, if you genuinely love him then you both will know what the right decision is that you’re making.
Profile: Snugglybunny642
Snugglybunny642 on Oct 24, 2019
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yes. Breaking up with people or a person is completely normal! It probably sucks a lot but it is life. sometimes the people you choose to date just aren't the ONE or they are bad people just in general and if you are breaking up multiple times with just one person then maybe you aren't meant to be or maybe you just need to learn to accept each others differences. breakups are the absolute worst!!! they are horrible things that no one should have to go through but, we do because it makes us stronger and the more you go through the more you'll learn and grow, even if you just want to lie in bed eating ice-cream by the tub with your bff!
Profile: KuanH
KuanH on Dec 15, 2019
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Breakups happen for multiple reasons, and some are not all that apparent. It is ok to go back to find the person you feel safe with, it is also ok to move on and find new people. Breakup is just part of the process in finding new people, or discovering what you really want. It is perfectly normal in having multiple breakups, whether over a long time or over a short span. It isn't always your fault, sometimes we just happen to be with people we are imcompatible, and the breakup is just the result of us realizing our mistakes.
Profile: kindDreamer9743
kindDreamer9743 on Mar 6, 2020
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It is very normal to break up several times during a life time more during the younger years especially teenage years as that's when your only starting out and finding your way through life including finding a partner who you are compatible with on many levels, this also applies to when you get older also as we don't stop growing and our minds change as our taste buds change to, I'm sure we have all heard of mid life crisis? this can happen to male and females and its often the case couples split up because of that as one or both people find they are no longer compatible at that stage of life any more, it s normal to break up as its just part of life.
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