Is it normal to breakup multiple times?
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Moderated by Danielle Johnson, MSED, Community mental Health Counseling, LMHC
Updated: Jan 7, 2024
Anonymous
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Mar 9, 2018
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Yes. It happens to the best of us. You never get lucky the first time unless you know what you are doing. Love takes practice and experience.
awesomeDay42
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Mar 28, 2018
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Yes it is.. Everyone don't do or find a perfect thing immediately.. Afterall we all struggle so much to find everything perfect.. So its absolutely normal
joyfulBeauty74
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Mar 30, 2018
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Of course. There are always ups and downs in relationships, it's part of life to disagree. But that doesn't mean that the love present would fade.
Anonymous
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Apr 1, 2018
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Breaking up is always hurting to the person you are breaking with, so if you find yourself doing so without problems it might be your survival instinct that pushes you to do so. If you really care about a person, instinctively you woudn’t break up constantly, the stakes would be higher cause you wouldn’t wanna lose that person.
Anonymous
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Apr 5, 2018
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It depends on the reason for the breakup. If it is from a toxic relationship, then no. If it is a normally healthy relationship, then maybe.
Anonymous
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Apr 12, 2018
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Every relationship is unique. So you must ask yourself if every time you break up, things get better. If things get better when you get together again, it's good. But if you are not getting better (improving the way of treating each other or changing for good) then it's not a healthy relationship. But like I said, every relationship is different, and it's not good to compare yours with other ones.
Tomper
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Apr 15, 2018
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If you break up and come back together multiple times with the same partner. Usually this means that there is something unhealthy going on between the two of you and that you might not be as compatible as you might think. Try to find a common reason for your break ups and try to talk to that person about what bothers you.
Anonymous
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Apr 20, 2018
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Unfortunately it's become normal but that doesn't make it right. Something has to change for the outcome to be different and if you get back into the relationship with no intention of changing something you're most probably going to end up in the same situation. Give yourself time to breathe then come back (if you feel comfortable) and change something. Don't spend so much time on something that will end up hearting you when you could have used that energy to fix the problem.
ChosenMarshmallow
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Jun 6, 2018
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I think if a relationship can be ended by one of you once then what's to stop it happening again; and why put yourself through that pain. It seems it doesn't matter enough to work through the issues or problems that may present and instead the easier option of walking away is taken. Which seems to say the relationship isn't worth putting effort into. The right person will put in the effort if they want to stay with you
Pugcanisegosum
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Jun 7, 2018
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For some people it is normal, although it's normal for some people it usually ends up with an on-going on and off relationship which will most likely result in a final break up at some point because there is no way that you can be together if you keep breaking up.
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