Is it normal to breakup multiple times?
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Updated: Jan 7, 2024
emrankh18
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Sep 16, 2016
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It is completely normal to breakup multiple times. It isn't your fault nor is it the fault of your ex. It just means that you're destined for someone better
Eston
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Sep 16, 2016
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I would say yes, and no, it depends on why you breakup in first place. I think its unhealthy behavior though. but many people breakup for various reasons, maybe they can't get along with each other very well, or outside forces eg parental involvement, church involvement, friends, or it maybe workwise or time issue that cause someone to breakup. Many people also breakup because they are emotional unstable so they cant seem to commit fully to one relationship and so as soon as someone else comes along they breakup or when problems arise they quickly breakup
Strangemusictechnician67
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Sep 21, 2016
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Normal, sometimes. Healthy? Quite often, not so much. In all reality, is anything really normal? Food for thought.
Anonymous
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Oct 5, 2016
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I know many people who have been through relationships with multiple breakups and the breakups help them realize how important they are to each other, however breaking up multiple times can also be upsetting. I think it is all down to how it makes you feel personally because every relationship is different.
mysteriousHeart66
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Oct 13, 2016
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Well I would say yes because I have many times and we've been together for 9 years. Sometimes you just need a break and sometimes you don't even mean it.
Anonymous
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Oct 16, 2016
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Not at all. Making someone go through all the stress and emotional drama is not okay. Nobody deserves to be treated like this.
WildUnknown
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Oct 26, 2016
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As it has happened to me and as I've seen it happen to a few friends, one could say that it's normal. Whether it's healthy or not is a different issue.
ItsStella
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Nov 6, 2016
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I find that it's totally normal to breakup with your lover more than once. It usually happens when there are many problems getting in the way.
SpookyJimLovesYou
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Nov 18, 2016
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No, it is not normal. That means your relationship is toxic. In fact, I've been in one of those relationships. It only lasted about a year and we would literally break up every week. It was awful. If you and your partner are prone to break up often, you should consider breaking it off for good. You shouldn't have to deal with that kind of emotional stress. Take care.
KaytlynnCanHelp
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Nov 26, 2016
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Not really, but it depends on the reasons of breaking up. Typically when breaking up it's to break off interactions with that person because of something that makes you upset or there just isn't a connection anymore.
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