Is it normal to breakup multiple times?
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Updated: Jan 7, 2024
Navomi4u
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Feb 28, 2018
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yes ! it is completely normal. It shows that you guys have difference of opinion or others but not giving up on each other.
bouncyBraid80
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Apr 4, 2018
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It's only normal if you accept it as normal. Conflict is inevitable; however, the outcomes shouldn't solely be ignoring issues or breaking up. Once you've established better boundaries, better honesty, and open communication, you'll be changing your standards. Establishing boundaries means clearly communicating your yeses and your nos. If your nos are frequently challenged or violated by someone, it's more beneficial to make that break up a permanent thing. Yes, people can change. It's up to you to discern if giving things another shot is going to be worthwhile for you and your partner. But there's the rub: your self-love and self-preservation are more important than holding on to a situation that does more harm than good.
Briyonalove
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Apr 7, 2018
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Yes. It is very common it may be upsetting to keep dealing with things like that , but its very common. But tell me about it.
ruedabega13
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Apr 19, 2018
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It varies from relationship to relationship. I will say that on and off relationships can be evidence for some deeper rooted problems that you'll have to work to fix
Anonymous
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Apr 26, 2018
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It's normal to break up 1000 times if you are not getting what you want. But trust me no one can be perfect. On this planet, sometimes you have to cooperate.
KieraR5936
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May 3, 2018
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It is completely normal. Many people go through this everyday. It doesn't mean it's healthy for you though.
Anonymous
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May 3, 2018
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It just really depends on the reasoning behind the breakups. Some just need space away from the other to really appreciate them again once the flame is dying out.
Anonymous
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May 9, 2018
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Yes, of course! Sometimes, a person messes up and you feel like you can't be with them anymore, but that time away makes you realize that you do love them even if they did mess up.
starlitestarbrite
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May 13, 2018
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yes definitely! rships are never easy.. & sometimes we all want to give it another shot.. but at the end of day love should not be conditional nor restrictive..
impartialBlueberry8015
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May 14, 2018
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It’s normal , but at the same time. It’s not healthy - sometimes you have a genuine connection with someone and breaking up with them can make you realize just how much you love them. But if our break up every other week or month, that’s not a good relationship to be in. If you break after several months then there may an issue with communication and until the both of them change the relationship won’t.
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