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Is it normal for my current boyfriend to always hangout and be with my ex boyfriend?

Profile: Thanks4Calling
Thanks4Calling on Sep 22, 2015
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Probably not usual, but not abnormal. If they like each other. As long as they both talk about and treat you with respect. Otherwise neither of them is worthy of concern. Perhaps they have something good in common. YOU!
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Profile: kyliemellado
kyliemellado on Jan 14, 2015
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i think it's healthy for you or your boyfriend to hang out with other people on a regular basis. but it isn't healthy for you to always be exposed to such a social situation if your last relationship ended on bad terms.
Profile: KaylaCind
KaylaCind on May 8, 2015
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I don't think there really is a 'normal' when it comes to relationships! I guess what's more important is how you all feel about this. If you're cool with it and there's no tension in the air, then I guess all is well! However, if you're feeling unsettled by it for whatever reason, then maybe have a chat to your boyfriend about it and let him know how you feel?
Profile: BeautifulSoul80
BeautifulSoul80 on Jul 27, 2015
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"Normal is just a setting on the washing machine at our house" - thanks for that grandma. It's a cliche statement that points to the fact that everyone's normal is different. Only you and your boyfriend can decide what's normal for you. Maybe it's time to connect with a listener to talk about what normal looks like to you, in this particular relationship. It's good that you are here and asking questions. You are in the right place to be understood.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 8, 2015
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It depends of the situation. But if they are good friends and you are on good terms with your ex boyfriend then it can be normal.
Profile: lostboy45
lostboy45 on Jun 30, 2020
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Well the question is do you feel comfortable with it? I mean regardless of whether it is normal or not it depends on you if you want your boyfriend to be best friends with your ex. The truth is do a lot of guys do it? No, but if you feel like you do want your boyfriend to have that type of relationship with your ex. then talk to him about it. The best way to find out what is going on and the best way to move forward about it is to have an adult conversation about it. If you dont it might negatively affect your relationship
Profile: magicalsummer152
magicalsummer152 on Jun 18, 2015
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It depends upon ur situation with ur ex and how long have the 2 men in ur life known each othr.. but a healthy frndship does no harm
Profile: espyo
espyo on Jul 13, 2015
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It's 50/50% normal. It can be good or bad. They can just be friends and try to get along for your sake or they can be to boys whom are talking about what has and what had happened in both the relationships. So it's sort of normal
Profile: Fraz
Fraz on Aug 2, 2016
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I wouldn't call it abnormal but it certainly isn't the trend. Reading more into the situation however might be detrimental. However, if you've got concerns, it's never a bad idea to discuss things constructively. Good luck.
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