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is it a bad thing to stay in love with someone who left you?

Profile: LittleLemon96
LittleLemon96 on Sep 3, 2016
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you will probably not be able to stop loving them like if it is a decision, try to get away of them and open a new page of your life, sometimes it hurts to see them with someone else, anyway, you should know that even if this one side love lasted for 5 years, it won't hurt you the same way it did after the break up, you will get used to it.
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Profile: JudyMoonshine
JudyMoonshine on Sep 4, 2016
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Two broken hearts don't heal at the same pace. Everyone takes their own time to recover from the person who left you. Grief, loss, and mourning have no time limit. Love the time you were with them. Love their memory. Do not love someone who does not love you.
Profile: Mahsaa
Mahsaa on Sep 4, 2016
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Well, no not really if you learn the fact that you won't get anything back and just love them for your times together. But keep in mind that if they had really caused you harm and problems, you gotta let them ago-today or tomorrow.
Profile: ashleymariex
ashleymariex on Sep 7, 2016
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It is not a bad thing at all! You will always love this person and that's great. Take this love and heartbreak and move on from it. You will use it for the better of your next relationship. Give it some time, but do not ever feel bad about doing something you cannot control.
Profile: SoapBubbles07
SoapBubbles07 on Sep 8, 2016
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Staying in love with someone is okay, but thinking about them all the time and letting these thoughts create hinderances in your life is not. It is a nice thing to keep someone's good memories alive in your heart, but it should be done in a healthy manner. You should know that there is very little chance that the person is going to come back just because you want them to. This should not stop you from enjoying your life and falling in love with a new person. Cheers. :)
Profile: Nilo1602
Nilo1602 on Sep 8, 2016
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Is it bad as long as we don't learn how to be without them, if we don't know what to do to next. Moving on and loving someone are different things.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 8, 2016
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no,mistakes happens and people learn from it.If he/she is back with you realized you two are better with each other together.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 8, 2016
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No it is not a bad thing. I am still in love with the boy who broke my heart. All you can do is figure out if the feeling is love, or lust. Because lots of times those 2 emotions get mixed up with each other. Put the pieces together on why he left you. Figure out if he is worth it.
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If you two are no longer together, then staying in love with this person isn't allowing you to move on :(
Profile: Nisee96
Nisee96 on Sep 10, 2016
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No it's not I mean you can't just stop loving someone by the snap of your fingers. It takes time to get over someone and with time you may finally no longer love them
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