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is it a bad thing to stay in love with someone who left you?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 15, 2018
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Love is not a feelings that just fades away. You may still someone after they are gone or hurted you. But you have to focus on loving yourself fisrt and doind what the best for you.
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Profile: officerli
officerli on Jun 17, 2018
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I don't know about "bad". It is, however, important to let go of those who apparently don't care for you nearly as much as you care for them. On the other hand, positive emotions towards a person is better than hatred or despisal.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 17, 2018
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No it’s not a bad thing because we all love someone who left us and it just takes time to get over someone
Profile: GAddams
GAddams on Jun 24, 2018
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It's not bad unless it prevents you from moving forward. You can love someone without letting it stop you from living.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 27, 2018
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It is very bad as it affects your mental and physical health. It is not going to bring anything. Better to move on.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 27, 2018
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Not really. The person may have left but the feelings and memories don’t. If it was real, the feelings would take time to leave. One day you’ll wake up and not necessarily hate that person, but you wouldn’t be craving them back in your life.
Profile: potatobreadpoint
potatobreadpoint on Jun 28, 2018
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I wouldn't say it is a bad thing, because it's normal to need some time to get over someone. However, it would be great if you tried to focus on other aspects of your life to help you with speeding up the process.
Profile: wonderfullSummer84
wonderfullSummer84 on Jun 29, 2018
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No, it’s not. Honestly I still love people who hurt me and then left, whether they were family or friends, or significant other. I still love them. It’s a totally natural thing, and it can also be a coping method. Hold on to your love, because to love is to hope.
Profile: Moonartisan
Moonartisan on Jun 30, 2018
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It isn't something you can stop doing all of a sudden. You've made emotional attachments and it takes time to stop loving someone. Don't be angry with yourself, don't expect immediate results. Take each day one step at a time.
Profile: generousPrince61
generousPrince61 on Jul 7, 2018
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No, this is a natural and normal response to loss. You've lost someone who represented a huge part of your life, and it's only natural to grieve and mourn that loss. At the same time, it's important to take active steps to move on.
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