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is it a bad thing to stay in love with someone who left you?

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Anonymous on Jun 11, 2016
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It is not necessarily healthy, if the person is not in love with you then you are only breaking your own heart.
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Anonymous on Nov 15, 2017
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No, you can never control your love for someone. it is okay to have love for the person but just know that they are a memory and you can move forward
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Anonymous on Jun 11, 2016
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You need to say au revoir and arrivedecci to him/her. You can care for them but to stay in love with them is going to drive you crazy, For your own sanity, stay away from such individuals.
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Anonymous on Jun 11, 2016
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Not always necessarily. You invest a lot of time and effort into relationships and it hurts when they don't reciprocate. And as all humans do, we attach to those who made us feel our best. It's only bad when you use their moving on against you.
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BassistBriar on Jun 15, 2016
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As a guy who just went through a breakup, I understand the situation. It's completely normal to love someone who left you. You put all of your love and time into that one person, and when they left, they took those feelings with them. Over time, you will recollect those feelings.
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SMStar on Jul 9, 2016
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Yes and no. It depends on the person and the situation. If staying in love after they left you doesn't hinder your day to day life, then it's alright. However, if it is, then its best to move on. There might be someone out there far better for you and opens your eyes.
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Anonymous on Jul 15, 2016
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I think it's normal to still love someone you were once in a close relationship with. I don't think this will ever really go away, however it's obvious that you will both have to move your separate ways. This doesn't mean that you have to end on bad terms or forget all the happy memories. I myself still feel something for someone I was once very close with, though I am now in a very happy relationship with someone I am even closer. You are only human and are allowed to feel any emotions you do! All the best, Jade :)
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Anonymous on Jun 12, 2016
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Nope. It's not bad at all. Unless they're harmful and the feelings get way too overwhelming and toxic. Then yeah, I believe it's a bad thing.
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Anonymous on Jun 16, 2016
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No its not. Love is good. But its very important to love your own self. You can love many people at a time. Make sure sure it makes you happy.
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RogerDan555 on Jun 17, 2016
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I would say it isn't right. Though, I can feel for someone who has left because our own feelings were more stronger than what that person had. However, it's not worth thinking and bothering about a person who doesn't even cares for you. It may take time, but better is to move on in your life. Besides, care for those who care for you. :)
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