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is it a bad thing to stay in love with someone who left you?

Profile: Krizma
Krizma on Nov 16, 2017
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I think it's not great to be in love with someone who left you. There are so many people out there. And if that someone left you then they probably don't know your worth. It's not a bad thing unless it's affecting you negatively. You can be friends with them or cut ties. You know what suits you
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Profile: naycopax
naycopax on Nov 17, 2017
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I think that is a normal feeling to be experiencing. Getting over someone even after they have left you is one of the hardest things you have to do in life.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 19, 2017
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No, love is something you can’t control, and it isn’t wrong to love someone who left you. You should’nt be mad at yourself for not moving on. These things take time.
Profile: SereneDancer21
SereneDancer21 on Nov 24, 2017
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It is neither good or bad...it is just something that takes time to work through at your own pace.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 29, 2017
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No. This just means that they were incredibly important to you. You will feel for them for a long time but it weakens. You will always remember them also.
Profile: SleepingBeautifully
SleepingBeautifully on Dec 10, 2017
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It depends on why the person left you. It's normal to still have feelings for someone who you're no longer with, it might even stay like that for a while. Hopefully those feelings will go away sooner or later whether it's just getting over the person or finding someone new. It takes time.
Profile: D8Dub
D8Dub on Dec 13, 2017
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Doesn't exactly sound like love to me...in my opinion, that's more of a wanting what you can't have kind of thing...I only say this because I've been in similar predicaments in the past. So yeah, just think about that for a wee while. Is it really love? Or is it the aforementioned wanting something (or rather, someone) that is currently unattainable? My apologies if this answer upsets you.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 21, 2017
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No, it isn't a bad thing to stay in love with someone who left you but you have to learn to love them from a distance while taking care of yourself. Begin focusing on healing yourself and eventually loving that person from a distance won't seem or feel so bad. Healing yourself will also open new doors for new people to love and cherish you.
Profile: SingedPaws
SingedPaws on Dec 23, 2017
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It's not bad, but you have to let yourself move on and heal. It didn't work out and that's okay you will find someone new.
Profile: valerie2197
valerie2197 on Dec 30, 2017
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It would be really difficult on you if you stayed in love with someone who left you. Your happiness is still dependent on the person, and they have the power to make you feel completely miserable. You deserve to love someone who will also love you back and treat you with the respect you deserve. That being said, stopping yourself from loving someone is incredibly difficult so don't be hard on yourself if you can't manage it immediately!
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