is it a bad thing to stay in love with someone who left you?
2cupsofteaa
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Sep 23, 2016
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There is no right or wrong in love- unless that person is mistreating you in some verbal and physical way.
Your question really depends on the situation. No, it is not bad to love someone who left you because you need some time to mourn and move on. Yes, it's bad to stay in love with someone who cheated on you, and then left you.
Either ways, use your own judgement and gut feeling.
SunnyQ
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Sep 24, 2016
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It's your choice to love someone.. But is worth to love someone who left? Isn't it better to 'open' your heart for someone who love you and stay with you.
heavenButton79
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Sep 25, 2016
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no it's never a bad thing to have feelings and expecially if this person was your first love or stole your heart
Anonymous
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Sep 28, 2016
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That's a difficult situation. Love naturally comes and goes, however the best thing you could do is develop a better relationship with yourself, and go from there.
BeyondEmpathy
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Sep 28, 2016
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Love is a very unique emotion that is totally individual. How it feels for you may not for another. But how you feel IS how you feel. Whether this is good or bad depends on how you feel about it. Do you feel like its becoming upsetting or preoccupying? If so maybe talking to a listener could be helpful?
amandaleonard
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Sep 30, 2016
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It's not necessarily "bad" but it can lead to overwhelming thoughts and prevent oneself from moving on from the relationship. If the relationship has ended, a person should take actions towards moving on from that relationship.
Anonymous
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Oct 9, 2016
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Not at all. You had a relationship with that person & you had feelings for them, its normal to feel this way & it will pass.
Anonymous
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Oct 9, 2016
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No. But, you have to realize that while you may have loved or still love them, they hurt you. Know that you are better than that, and you don't need them to find the right path.
mysteriousHeart66
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Oct 13, 2016
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This may be bad if you are trying to love someone else because you will most likely compare the two people
thehermitelf
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Oct 13, 2016
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It is not. It's not like you can just tell yourself to stop loving someone as soon as possible. As some point, everybody will go through this. As long as it does not affect you in any way that hinders your personal growth and everyday life then I'd say it's quite cool.
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