is it a bad thing to stay in love with someone who left you?
Anonymous
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Aug 19, 2016
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well it depends, if they let you for good reason you may respect them and always have that love thing for them but otherwise naah..
Anonymous
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Jun 16, 2016
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No, doing love is in human nature.. and this is not your weakness, its your strength that you're strong enough to love someone who left you.. but still you have to love yourself more than that person.. if he/she left you.. you have to remind yourself you have to live for yourself.. because if they had cared.. they wouldn't leave.. so keep loving but don't let that love effect your life.. you know why to waste our love over someone who don't deserve us? keep going.. love yourself too.. because you'd always have yourself with you.. ^_^
Greatlistener87
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Jun 15, 2016
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The place u have for that person will never truly leave, but you will have to let go which will be the hard part. You have to be happy for that person and let the person grow just as much as you should let yourself grow.
rebeccamariexox
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Jun 16, 2016
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It's not your fault you still have feelings, it just means that you cared. It'l take time, but you'll get over them :)
JackSkel
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Jun 24, 2016
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In my experience, staying in love with someone after they leave you only causes more pain and heartbreak. Of course, everyone needs their time to mourn, but also try to move on as soon as possible.
FairyGodfather
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Aug 5, 2016
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Is it bad to get burnt by the same flame twice? well if you got burnt the first time but could resist the urge to go back and play with it the second time. Yes it's bad. Some times we go back to things and places we shouldn't. Not because we don't know it's bad, but because there was something about that place or person our curiosity is drawn to. So is it bad to love them? no, you can always love from a distance.
happyName
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Jun 26, 2016
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It's not bad to stay in love with them, but there is no use in that. When they had moved away from you and leading a new life, you too deserve to be happy and move forwrd
EmpatheticEmma
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Jun 19, 2016
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No, totally not! Love is something that effects someone so deeply, of course it's going to take some time to get over! Losing love will take some time to heal, just be open to the idea of finding love in someone else. Best wishes! :)
0m
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Jun 14, 2018
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No. It's hypocritical to say you can stop loving someone. However it's important to remember that love is not the same as a relationship. You are no longer in a relationship with them ergo that love will be more of a memory of love, rather than an opportunity to build any new memories with the person who left you.
loyalgirl
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Feb 22, 2020
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I personally have experience being in love for many years in person that was always leaving me behind. To be clear i wasn't very honest about my feelings but here i am. To answer your question is it a bad thing i will suggest you to look inside you and see how that love make you feel.
Are those feelings of love more like obsessive or they are true and honest.
Are those feelings making you feel bad, like you feel sad all the time because you are not with that person anymore than they are a bad thing because they are influencing you well being. They don't serve you as they are only giving you negative emotions.
On the other side if you love this person like you respect them, you want them to be happy and you love them because they were eventually part of you life and you are grateful you had them that is okay.
I mean if you have accepted the situation the way it is and you don't build expectations any more, but you still love them it is really magical and also really hard.
So look inside and see how loving that person makes you feel and you have your answer.
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