I'm dating someone who has cheated in the past. What should I do?
Theresalwaystomorrow
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Nov 17, 2016
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Do you trust that they are not going to cheat again? Are you okay with the possibility that they may cheat on you? Ask and reflect on this. If it is a pattern and you are not okay with that then you do not deserve that!
PrettyCupcake00
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Feb 28, 2018
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Hey love! If he has cheated you in the past once and you're dating him again then just remember what had caused him to cheat on you last time and taje precautions. And if has cheated someone else before and yoh know the story then make sure you know bith the sides of the story and make sure to keep all the details which led to him cheating.
Ky23
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Mar 24, 2018
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At this point, you can only give them the benefit of the doubt. You don't know the full story behind what's happened until they tell you. Trust them through actions they make that are worthy of your trust, and don't be so quick to assume things about them based off of a bad choice or mistake. It is VERY easy to do this, we're only human and I think jumping to conclusions is your brains very clunky way of trying to process something immediately and figure out if this means something risky for you.
Ask questions, and be honest when you feel the time is right or it is warranted. It's a tough conversation because breakups and cheating are normally a sore spot for anyone.
Angelwillsx
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Mar 30, 2018
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Before answering this, it is important to determine what you want for yourself and whether you are genuinely happy with this person. It is also important to establish your worth and how with or without a partner you’re content within yourself. If this person consistently cheats on you maybe unfortunately they are unable to see your worth whereas there are other people out there who can. However, once again. If you’re happy with this person and you’re certain you’re not damaging yourself physically or mentally with this person - vice versa then continue dating them. Ultimately it accumulates as to whether you’re both happy and growing in a positive direction individually.
aticuest
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Jan 6, 2022
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That is some really serious trust you are putting in your partner, who you have mentioned has cheated in the past. It is in every way possible that he/she has changed, and that they would never cheat on you or hurt you. If you guys are pretty close and in the stage where you are comfortable with ex talks, try to talk about and understand why he/she did what they did. Try to find out if your partner justifies cheating, or regrets causing that kind of pain on someone. Since the saying goes, "Once a cheater, always a cheater." So, be careful, and if you feel even a bit suspicious that your partner may be cheating on you, trust your gut and get out of that relationship. You don't need that kind of person in your life to love you.
Anonymous
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May 15, 2016
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Just be careful and look how the relation will develop. Don't expect too much, because the more you do, the more you feel disappointed if this guy/ girl cheats on you.
Anonymous
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May 25, 2016
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Leaving an open mind is very important when starting the date. The other person began dating maybe for a purpose for a clean slate, but that doesn't mean we have to let down our guard from the beginning. Go with the flow and interact with person get to know them, see if the person is loyal or playing around then on the outcome take action. But always remain nice and sweet
Anonymous
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Jun 2, 2016
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If he has cheated you in the past and you suspect he can do it again... Thn it's better to remain assist from him... But if he has done it with someone else and you are convinced that he might not repeat the same with you thn it's OK.... You never know in what circumstances he had done that behavior
Anonymous
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Jun 12, 2016
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People change people, maybe she/he has changed. I believe everyone has the power to do right again.
CayleighGrangerr
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Jul 23, 2016
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Be wary, but don't distrust them because of their past.. They may have cheated in the past but you don't know the exact situation they were in to cheat or what place they were in mentally when it happened. People do change.
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