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I'm dating someone who has cheated in the past. What should I do?

Profile: Cpcoleman1WSU
Cpcoleman1WSU on Mar 1, 2018
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I'd be cautious. I'd try not to obsess about it, or make a scene of it but keep it in the back of your mind. They say once a cheater always a cheater for a reason sadly.
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 1, 2018
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I would have open discussion with them in regards to how it makes you feel. Try to talk about your fears and ensure that these are acknowledge. Learn to trust and be honest with another.
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they cheated once, they may cheat again; prepare yourself for that. They may have their own insecurities.
Profile: courageousBreeze48
courageousBreeze48 on Mar 14, 2018
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have an open conversation, discuss together what are the do's and don'ts, what are your limits in a relationship, how do you stand in different moral dilemmas...There is nothing wrong with that, it is very normal to want to know someone better at the beginning of the relationship
Profile: BlueRosHelper
BlueRosHelper on Mar 23, 2018
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Sit that person down and express your specific concerns or feelings about their past but make sure not to sound judgemental or act harsh towards the other perso
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 23, 2018
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Learn to trust that individual, be cautious but don't invade their privacy. Trust is so important c:
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If someone has cheated in the past you should maybe monitor them just to make sure. If they really want to stop cheating and say they won't anymore ask them if you can install an iPhone tracker to make sure that when they go out they don't and maybe have a car tracker too. All through this, all might be a little too drastic if they want to get better and they say they do they will let you. Or if you are a really trusting person you don't have to go and do that, but still, keep an eye out on them just in case. ;)
Profile: AbreeSmiles
AbreeSmiles on Mar 31, 2018
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Talk to them about this, and ask to check text messages and/or ask them to be honest with you. Most likely they will be honest.
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Anonymous on Mar 31, 2018
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Give them a chance and be completely honest and straightforward with them, if they cheat leave them the second you find out. People can change but just be careful as they may not have changed yet.
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Anonymous on Apr 5, 2018
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Dating someone with a checkered past should not be used to judge a current event in your own life. Simply you have to respect the person as the relationship slowly becomes stronger and stronger there is a such thing as Second Chances if one truly believes in second chances as they would love and want for those second chances to happen to you we must learn to adapt to a brand new change and that is known as a fresh start. Am I honest opinion no person on this Earth is perfect in everything everybody has a flaw some hide those laws very well While others make it very obvious. But it's totally up to one person if they truly want that relationship to happen
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