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I'm dating someone who has cheated in the past. What should I do?

Profile: StarryLove
StarryLove on Jan 24, 2018
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It all boils down on what do you want to do? on what do situation you are in? The past and the present version of him are or may be different. Only you can judge if he's worthy of your love.
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Anonymous on Jan 24, 2018
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I would tell them that I'm not okay with that and make sure that they understand me in a positive manner because I wouldn't wanna loose the person whom I love.
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Anonymous on Jan 31, 2018
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Give him or her a chance, because everyone deserves a second chance we're all human, nothings perfect
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Anonymous on Feb 7, 2018
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Personally i believe that someone who cheats once will cheat again. Breaking it off and looking for a more loyal companion could be a better option.
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starryPanda93 on Feb 8, 2018
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Be extra careful this time..dont show him\her that you doubt them ..still doubt their every action, don't let the past repeat again.
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Anonymous on Feb 14, 2018
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Doesn't necessarily mean that they would cheat again, although it's more probable than not. Nobody can tell you what you "should" do as nobody can give you a guarantee about it. In this scenario, just do what makes you feel comfortable. If you feel uneasy and suspicious when they're not around and those feelings make you insecure to the point that it's having an impact on your productivity, sleep, and all the other important aspects of life, then it's better to move on and make a better choice. Hope this helps (:
Profile: Dreamer123456
Dreamer123456 on Feb 17, 2018
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Do not judge people on their past. But be cautious, if he cheats on you, it may not be the first time. Do not forgive him straight away. Give him straight away. If it happens more than once, or you cannot forgive him, leave him. Foucus on yourself before him.
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Anonymous on Feb 21, 2018
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The first question to ask is, how do you feel about his past? If it makes you insecure at the thought that he might cheat on you, the relationship won't last as there is no trust. If you think that you can work past this and trust him to be loyal to you, then the relationship is worth fighting for
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Anonymous on Feb 23, 2018
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Your past can say a lot about about you, but people can change. Someone's current actions and commitment to being a better person should speak louder that their past wrongdoings
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Anonymous on Feb 28, 2018
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Be aware of it know that this person might cheat and be ready and if he doesnt.. Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!
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