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I'm dating someone who has cheated in the past. What should I do?

Profile: SilentFlame
SilentFlame on Sep 1, 2016
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The best way to find out if you can trust him is to be honest. Talk about it. Be sure to check out if he feels sorry about what he did.
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Profile: dancingCat84
dancingCat84 on Sep 7, 2016
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I think you shouldnt worry maybe that person cheated because they felt neglected and not loved show him/her alot of love and compassion :)
Profile: RobRH
RobRH on Sep 7, 2016
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Obviously trust is something that would bother you if you ask this question- putting yourself in that situation with that knowledge will always be difficult to truly trust somebody
Profile: scenicWillow26
scenicWillow26 on Sep 8, 2016
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be careful
Profile: amazingGrotto88
amazingGrotto88 on Sep 9, 2016
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It doesn't mean he will do it to you , it could of been not a good relationship , tell him your fears and leave it at that as all the worrying will eventually break you up.
Profile: enjoyiableBlanket63
enjoyiableBlanket63 on Sep 9, 2016
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Honesty is important in any relationship. Being open and real with your partner is the key to a successful relationship.
Profile: BintNajem
BintNajem on Sep 11, 2016
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A person's past state need not always be his present one too. So if I am sure or feel that he is yet a cheat thenI would just ditch him.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 15, 2016
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The past is the past, I think it is the best if you let go of it, but only if that feels right for you.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 16, 2016
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Hmm, you should be careful and take time to know if they have changed. Have good luck with that person!!
Profile: AnnieAnne
AnnieAnne on Sep 16, 2016
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This person was cheated on, and that leaves a scar. Your date probably will be extra careful with whoever they trust, and become suspicious a lot easily. It can also have a harder time to show its true feelings in a way to protect itself and somehow prevent from getting hurt again. You should do your best to make your date comfortable, reassure your feelings and allow trust to grow, in order to allow healing,
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