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I'm dating someone who has been cheated on. What should I do?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 12, 2018
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Earn their trust and be honest with them. Let them know you are not their ex and you will not do the same things to them.
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Profile: KaylaBayla98
KaylaBayla98 on Apr 26, 2018
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Take things slow,build trust and heal with that person. Because they are emotional torn and support from you will build a trusting relationship between you two
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 27, 2018
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You should talk to them, don’t hide anything from them as they might think that it might happen again
Profile: BrittanySandlin
BrittanySandlin on May 2, 2018
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If you're dating someone who has been cheated on, give them reassurance. Let them know they are loved & that the past does not define the future. If the love is real they will feel that. But you need to show them love in the way they feel secure in your relationship.
Profile: MintedTea
MintedTea on May 17, 2018
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Always let them know that they are the only one in your life and comfort them. It might sound silly, but it goes a long way.
Profile: Helpfulspace
Helpfulspace on May 22, 2018
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Don’t cheat on them. Reassurance is key, show love with actions not words. If you don’t want to be with them, let them know straight out. Love and care for them, they can be sensitive, don’t do anything to break their trust.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 23, 2018
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They’re probably going to be quite insecure and potentially paranoid. Be cautious of their feelings but don’t stop being yourself
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Anonymous on May 23, 2018
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make sure they have your trust and that you have theres. that is the most important thing in a relationship.
Profile: glowingHope12
glowingHope12 on Jun 12, 2018
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You should be yourself and love that person the way you know best and treat that person the same way you would treat any other person that you have dated. For them to trust you and be completely open with you, you need to be yourself.
Profile: Here4UAlwaysAndEver
Here4UAlwaysAndEver on Jun 15, 2018
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Building up steady trust is key. Since they have lost trust before, they will be on guard, even if it's to a different person like you. Confide things in them when they tell you things. Do favors for them and don't shower them with compliments but still occasionally compliment them. Showering makes you look suspicious, like you are trying to get something out of them.
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