I'm dating someone who has been cheated on. What should I do?
Anonymous
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Jul 8, 2017
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You should make sure he or she knows that you love him or her and that that person has nothing to worry about
adaptiveIceCream45
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Jul 16, 2017
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When in that situation don't try and show them that your different from their ex with words it's better to prove it with actions because that way they know your sincere. Secondly don't make yourself seem like the hero because that puts you on a pedestal that is impossible to stay on top of. Make sure that you both are happy in the relationship and that it is healthy.
SkylerGrey
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Jul 16, 2017
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Don't dismiss their insecurities, listen and reassure them. Important note: Being compassionate and reassuring doesn't mean that you should put up with possessiveness. K
now where to draw the line!
xylphzyk
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Jul 20, 2017
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The first thing you want to pay attention to is the trust element. He/she has been cheated on. It will hurt his/her trust to their significant other. They will think that there's always a possibility that they will be cheated on again. You have to gain his/her trust. Try to be as transparent as you can with them, don't try to hide anything from them. Always be mindful to have a good communication with him/her.
Anonymous
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Jul 21, 2017
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You should be loyal towards your new partner and try to understand what they have been through. The worst thing you could do is cheat on them.
joyfulSmiles17
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Aug 3, 2017
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Show this person you care and love them or care about them. They have been hurt and the past show them you are actually there for them and not there to do the same thing as the person in their past relationship. If you feel that you might cheat on them do them the kind favor and tell them or maybe stay single until you're ready to commit.
genuineTree90
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Aug 10, 2017
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Just treat them with love and support :) It might help to reassure them that you're not going to cheat and to allow them to talk to you about their concerns if they need to :)
Anonymous
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Aug 11, 2017
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You should help them find ways to trust you and make them open up to you and talk about what you can do together to make the relationship open and better for you both.
ManiRose
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Aug 12, 2017
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Recongize and understand that they are going to have some serious walls put up. Respect their boundaries and comfort zones, and take it easy! Having your heart hurt and broken is a tough thing, considering humans were made to love one another and give it their all. Be sympathetic and empathetic and be patient. Their biggest fear is most likely that you're going to leave.
enchantingRose58
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Aug 18, 2017
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Be honest and careful and understanding when they feel insecure and jealous without it being to intense
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