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I want to break up, but I'm scared that no one will ever love me again. What should I do?

Profile: StrawberryPudding
StrawberryPudding on Sep 21, 2016
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In the first place,your fear it's unnecessary. There will always be someone to love you and cherish you better than the one that doesn't deserve your love by treating you bad and not caring for you as he should,making you want out of the relationship.Anyone making you feel that way is undeserving of your love and you should know that you are worthy of being loved and respected. Keep that in mind,raise your head and live life without any fear,because you are awesome and people will notice that!
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 23, 2016
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Be yourself. People will love you and if you dont feel right then you should breakup. You will find someone> I promise.
Profile: amayacloud10
amayacloud10 on Sep 25, 2016
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Do whatever feels right, If you listen to your emotions then everything will work out. Just because you break up with them doesn't mean that you will never have a lover again, they just simply aren't the one that you thought they were!
Profile: Kaeneus
Kaeneus on Oct 6, 2016
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A unfulfilling or abusive relationship is often worse than being alone. While you may have fears about being able to find a relationship again and future, these fears are not a reason to remain in a situation which makes you unhappy.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 7, 2016
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If you want to break up with someone, then do it. It's cruel to both of you to stay. You will be loved again. It may take a while but eventually it will happen when it's supposed to.
Profile: BlaireMack198
BlaireMack198 on Oct 8, 2016
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If in your heart you want to leave someone than you should. It isn't healthy for you or that other person to be in that relationship, and in the end if you don't want to be there you're just leading the other person on which will cause more pain for them in the long run. The best thing you could do for them and for yourself is to leave them if you want to.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 13, 2016
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There are so many people in this world you are bound to find someone who loves you and cares for you.
Profile: originalbraveheart63
originalbraveheart63 on Oct 13, 2016
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You should do it, if you want to do it already then it is better than staying in a relationship that is not making you happy.
Profile: ThisTooShallPassSoon
ThisTooShallPassSoon on Oct 14, 2016
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Remember the last person that loved you. And Remember that cliche "there are plenty of fish in the sea" which is very true. There are people just waiting, from match.com to other dating sites to places in the real world.. Someone out there that is right for you is waiting, waiting to love you. Being alone and searching for love is healthier than remaining in something you are unhappy with. Trust me, there's someone out there waiting for you. So take a chance. Leave, get out there, make yourself known, and have some fun.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 19, 2016
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What's important is that you're happy, and don't make any decisions that make you uncomfortable, whether the person you're in a relationship in doesn't make you happy, doesn't give you enough attention, is abusive, or they're simply not the one, whatever the reason, you can try to sort things out, and work towards a better relationship, but if nothing changes, or it progressively becomes worse, it's better to move on, because the longer you stay in that relationship the less time you will have to spend with the person that will love you as much as you love them, which sooner or later you will meet.
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