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I want to break up, but I'm scared that no one will ever love me again. What should I do?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 14, 2021
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If you feel like you should break up then it's not the right relationship,it definitely means something somewhere is going wrong. Also you should not stay in something wrong for such silly reasons. Listen here bunny if you should be bothered about someone loving you,it should be you! Love your self,flaunt you for who you are,loving yourself gives you confidence and boosts your self esteem and trust me that's gonna attaract a lot of people. Don't worry about people loving you,you should be worried about how to make yourself better. And you are beautiful so trust yourself,you gonna make it,go ahead
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 20, 2021
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If someone fell in love with you before , someone else will find that special thing in you to love. Don't deprive yourself of happiness, because if you want to break up there is something going on that's not working for you.
Profile: SpringBirds
SpringBirds on Mar 27, 2021
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Thanks for reaching out! I can really hear that you are fearing abandonment in future relationships if you choose to split or worry about feeling lonely in the future. As someone who has experienced a break up, they are hard which one cannot deny. You can ask yourself what are your expectations from relationships. Does your upbringing have anything to do with your way of experiencing a break up? What are your boundaries in relationships? Are boundaries easy or difficult for you to establish? All you can do is be honest to yourself and others along the way. Take decisions not with haste but with care. It will not be an easy time for you both but a learning process for you both depending on the nature of your relationship. Before you break up, identify what's It’s important to ask yourself what is causing you to want to leave your partner? How do you want to go by telling them/him/her you want to break up or how you feel about the nature of your relationship with him/her? Talking about a potential breakup and about your relationship with your significant other can involve a lot of doubt in how you think they may react but it's a team effort! Work together on fixing things and if you do decide to break up that does not mean your relationship has to end on bad terms. There are support organizations out there dedicated towards helping those with relationship stress such as Relate and One LoveFoundation. You are welcome to reach out to one of our listeners or therapists on our site too!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 10, 2021
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If you feel like you should break up, you likely have a reason for feeling like this, no matter how insignificant it may seem. Just because your (current?) partner may not love you, this doesn't mean that nobody else ever will. In fact, it gives you more freedom to get into other relationships with people who love you. You never know, people may love you, but may not want to say it to you because they know that you are in a relationship so don't want to change anything between you and your partner or themselves. I recommend breaking up, and give yourself the opportunity to find somebody else
Profile: janathebian
janathebian on Apr 15, 2021
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be where you can be truly yourself and then the right ones will love you. sometimes the people we love the most end up not loving us that will keep being in this 3ay until the person that will really love you and deserve you will stay and keeo caring and adoring you always. but that we stay with someone even if the thought of leaving popped into our mind with them is so wrong. the right person will come and will let you see that he/she will love and care for you more than you imagined.. plus the only person that can love you really is just you 🤍
Profile: Vinny27
Vinny27 on Jun 6, 2021
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I understand that you feel worried and scared about this but try to focus on your current relationship and how that makes you feel. Focusing on one thing at a time and the present may help you feel less anxious. Think about how breaking up will cause your mental health to improve now and make a decision based on that. Take into account your own needs and make the right choice for you, I know it can be hard but remember only you can understand what you need. If you need to talk again please feel free to reach out!
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angelwithnowings on Jun 20, 2021
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If you feel like your relationship isn't the same anymore or the person you are with isn't for you then it is a good idea to break up, although I am sure that you will be able to judge what to do best. Everyone has love to give really and there are a LOT of people in the world. A lot of people regret not leaving a relationship owing to the fear of not finding love again but honestly there is so much for you to learn and explore. You deserve love and you will get it as you go about life :)
Profile: NinaBee
NinaBee on Jul 14, 2021
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Remind yourself there are 8 billion people in the world. You will find someone. And if not? There's no shame in being in a healthy, loving and fulfilling relationship with yourself. As a matter of fact, it should be your biggest flex. Decide what kind of person you want to be and make goals to embody that version of yourself. Work towards it everyday, regardless of your relationship status. Once you have established yourself as the best version of yourself, you'll have higher, healthier standards for the people you let into your life and you'll get to decide whether or not you still want to break up or not.
Profile: Tamy4210
Tamy4210 on Jul 16, 2021
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i understand that once we are in a relationship, sometimes we feel like we would never find someone ever again but trust me, you will. It is better than staying in a relationship that you dont want to stay in. Don't you think its not fair on the other person too? You both deserve a relationship where you feel happy and content and which serves you both, and dont worry with time, you will find someone again. There are 7 billion people in the world, im sure there is out someone out there who will love you truly and completely, dont worry
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heretohelpu111 on Sep 2, 2021
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If you want to break up, then it's probably the right thing to do. Keeping a bad relationship can only hurt you and your significant other. Remember, there are so many people in your life that love you. Romantic love is not always needed to be fulfilled, and focusing on the positive relationships in your life can leave you happier and healthier, as well as more ready to be in a romantic relationship. Take some time to think about the best way to move forward is, and ask for support if you need it during that hard and stressful time. Remember to keep yourself at the center of your life and do what is best for you and your mental health!
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