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I want to break up, but I'm scared that no one will ever love me again. What should I do?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 6, 2016
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If you are having these thoughts of doubt in your relationship, then there is something not right about it. You should be with someone you truly feel happy with and not question whether or not you want to be with them. As for whether someone will ever love you again, of course someone will. There is someone out there for everyone and if you haven't found them then you are looking in the wrong places
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Profile: reservedTriangle2012
reservedTriangle2012 on Mar 26, 2018
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I'm facing the same problem .. But you can't let that fear control you ! If you can't stay with this person don't worry .. you will be okay and you've got yourself .. love yourself .. and I'm sure you will be loved again ..
Profile: comfortableBeauty98
comfortableBeauty98 on Dec 18, 2014
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I would suggest that you take some time to introspect.. This is one of the biggest questions that haunts us.. Truth be told, if he\she isn't the one, but you're still with him\her, you are closing doors on other people.. Your current boyfriend\girlfriend loves you, fell for who you are.. If one person did it, why won't others.. However, while introspecting, do try to understand why you love your boyfriend\ girlfriend and why is it that you want to break up.. Many a times, relationships just go through a rough patch and the couple ends up coming out of it stronger than ever before.. Think and talk! pour your heart out with a 7cups listener..
Profile: usefulPurple70
usefulPurple70 on Nov 10, 2016
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If you feel that you will be happier breaking up with your partner, mentally and physically then do so, but you should not allow one relationship damage your prospect on love and other realtionships, one break up will not affect future realtionships.
Profile: KingAaron84
KingAaron84 on Feb 23, 2018
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Don't stay anywhere that your unhappy. Take a chance and explore. The love you put into yourself will bring someone along that will love you.
Profile: Cpcoleman1WSU
Cpcoleman1WSU on Mar 1, 2018
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You can almost always be loved again. I know it may seem like this person is the last who will ever love you, but there are 7 billion people out there in this world, about half of them are members of the opposite sex. You'll find them if they don't find you!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 8, 2018
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Do what you think is best for you in the moment. If you’re not feeling like the relationship you’re in right now is the best thing for you that’s okay and you have every right to end the relationship. Just because one relationship ends, it doesn’t mean that’s the only relationship you’ll ever have. Don’t stress too much on what may or may not happen in the future when you have many more important things to focus on in the present. You know your situation and how you feel. That’s what matters and that’s whats for sure. The future is always uncertain and isn’t something to make too many assumptions about.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 9, 2020
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If you want to break up, then you are probably not happy. Loving yourself is very important and breaking up with someone who is not making you happy is self care for yourself. If this person loves you, you should be able to talk to them about how you are feeling. If your needs are not being fulfilled, let your partner know how they can fulfill them. You deserve to be loved by someone who makes you happy. If your partner is not treating you the way you want to be treated, treat yourself that way and look for someone else when you are ready.
Profile: blissfulVoice4356
blissfulVoice4356 on Sep 12, 2020
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Loving yourself should be your first priority. When you start loving yourself, the world will come to you. You will find the correct person to love you. Just be yourself, trust yourself. You are most likely to get to know what is best for you. You alone are enough. You have nothing to prove to anyone. It's your greatest responsibility. How can we love others when we don't know how to love ourselves. Keep a good routine, maintain a healthy life. Sleep on time and be confident about what you are doing. Live the greatest gift from God. Don't waste it. Live every moment like it's the most precious moment.
Profile: Bookiie
Bookiie on Jan 6, 2021
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It is hard to end a relationship with a person who means a lot to you, even when the feelings get faded. And it is even harder if you have fears about the future. But staying in a relationship for which you think has no future isn't healthy, it can lead to pettiness, lots of fights, and toxicity which is harmful to the health of both parties (both you and your partner). And currently, you perceive the relationship as some kind of comfort zone, and hence the fear that no one will ever love you again. But darling, I don't know who you are, but every person is loveable and if you found love once, there is a big chance you will find it again.
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