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I want to break up, but I'm scared that no one will ever love me again. What should I do?

Profile: kindButterfly20
kindButterfly20 on Jul 19, 2020
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Break-ups can be hard, and it may not be the easiest decision to make! You may be feeling a little confused right now and unsure if it’s the right choice to make, remember to always follow your heart. If you think it’s the right thing to do for yourself, try talking to your partner and explain how you are feeling. Remember you will find happiness again unexpectedly, be patient and focus on the good things that are happening in your life. Your own happiness, wellbeing, health and mental stability is the most important thing. Take care and love yourself first.
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Profile: Asher
Asher on Jul 24, 2020
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Breaking up someone can be so scary to do, as you mentioned that fear of not getting loved is true to find. When we lose someone that about so deeply we are scared of the future as we are unsure if we feel this way again that we might get the same result again. I have dealt with this issue on a daily basis well tryinge to tell myself that I can find someone. But at the end of the day I came to terms of the breakup but also knew that if someone could love me once that I can find someone life that again. So a Google video said in 2018, "Good things are worth searching for"
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Anonymous on Jul 24, 2020
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Breaking up is hard to do, but here’s some tips for taking the leap: 1. Keep talking to the people who love you. Make sure you maintain a great support network of friends and family. Nothing makes breaking up seem scarier than feeling completely isolated. 2. Try a reality check. It’s a cliché but it’s true: It’s better to be happy alone than miserable with someone else. 3. Take time for yourself. Dr. Lombardo recommends pursuing the things you love and focusing on your goals. “Just know that this time is for me to work on me,” she says. Try volunteering, a new hobby or taking a course. 4. Don’t underestimate your gut feelings. After the hurt of breaking up, Jessica was pleased to feel an enormous sense of relief. She made the right choice. “Now, I’m with a guy who isn’t perfect, but who’s the perfect guy for me.” 5. Don’t drag it out once you’ve made a decision. For Erin, lessons learned enabled her to break off another not-quite-right relationship a lot sooner. And the difference, she says, was fewer hurt feelings all around.
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Anonymous on Jul 29, 2020
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Relationships can be very difficult. Breaking up or being broke up with can be very hard. It is very hard leaving someone you love so much. However consider the reasons why you are doing this. This is to help you in the long run. It may hurt now but trust and believe your heart will be healed from any heartbroken. Don't ever think you will not be loved the way you deserve. There is someone who will cater to you in ways you deserve. Do not ever think you are not capable of the love you deserve. Always give it time.
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Anonymous on Aug 5, 2020
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Breakups can be scary. If it's something you want to do you should do it, follow your instincts. You're afraid of not finding someone new. We've all been there. I was in a relationship once that I wasn't happy in. I didn't want to breakup because I was afraid no one would ever love me. But I went through with it and broke up with them. Since then I've been happier and I have loved and been loved by other people. It's common to feel scared but you can do it. Go with what you feel like you should do.
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Anonymous on Aug 7, 2020
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Try to understand the reasons behind why you feel scared. Don't arrive at any conclusion right away. Try to understand if break up is the only option or if you guys can still work out if not then try to understand what all makes you feel as if no one will ever love you again. Just know that you're never alone! You're gonna meet so many people in your life and some of them are going to love you more than you have experienced more than you can think of! Have faith and believe in yourself! We're always here to listen to you❤️
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Anonymous on Aug 19, 2020
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I the relationship is toxic and not healthy for you, it would be better for your mental health to move on. Breaking up is hard to do no matter the situation but your overall health is better than any relationship. You will discover love again and it will be wonderful. Trust me I have been there. But if you are not happy with in yourself first no one will make you happy. A partner is supposed to enhance your happiness not create it for you. I pray this helps you and I hope it helps you make the best decision for yourself.
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Prusha on Aug 23, 2020
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This is a normal feeling of anxiety, When relationships break it causes emotions and often we feel like we've failed. Relationships are like doors, When one closes another always opens. Sometimes we have to jump down the rabbit hole to find these doors, But they are out there. Relationships are not something that is failed but rather gained and that gain is a learning experience that allows us to grow and learn. This feeling of not being wanted will surely pass in time, It is just another normal feeling that comes with a relationship and unfortunately they don't come with an instruction book.
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MidwesternCalmSeeker on Sep 12, 2020
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It's so hard to be going through a break-up, so it is totally understandable that you are struggling with this decision. You are not alone, and I can tell you that I have felt similar to this in a past relationship. Have you considered making a list of the things that are good and not-so-great in your current relationship? Maybe that will help you to clear your mind and discover your path forward with greater confidence. No matter what, know that you are worthy, and you are capable of loving and being loved. Love is never easy, but it always worth the challenge.
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AmarahSofia on Sep 30, 2020
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No one deserves that kind of treatment. You just stay on the relationship not because you love your partner but because you were afraid that no one will loves you again. Its pretty unfair, and no one deserves to be treated that way. Be in a relationship because you love and you care for the person. Love comes with commitment. Do not get into any relationships if you are not ready, get into ones when you know how to love and value someone. Do not take other people's feelings for granted because we do not have any idea how much emotional and mentally damage we can caused by taking them for granted. Respect yourself first before others respect you. No matter how bad the world might be, I do still believe that if we only know how to give respect to everyone then it will lessen the pain and troubles in the future.
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