I want to break up, but I'm scared that no one will ever love me again. What should I do?

"In an increasingly competitive, cautious and accelerated world, those who are willing to take risks, step out of their comfort zone and into the discomfort of uncertainty will be those who will reap the biggest rewards," Margie Warrell writes in Forbes. You deserve to find true love, to be happy and to find a partner who you respect, love and see a future with. You owe it to yourself. You will find it, you will grow from this and you will experience so many amazing things in your life still. It isn't easy, but it's so worth it! :)

I have felt that no one would love me when I was feeling doubtful about the relationship I was currently in but then it made me realize, if I'm feeling this low about myself then the relationship I'm in is no good for me! And that means that I am capable of love and not from the person I was with! You are always capable of love, know this wholeheartedly and fully, and you should be with the one who tells you this and makes you aware of this and reminds you of this. And do not take anything less from anyone.

Is it a healthy relationship? If not do it, get yourself healthy! If you're doing it to do it, I would take into consideration that there is somebody for everybody! It is perfectly okay to feel " Oh I'll never find someone" but don't tear yourself down! But in all honesty if you are TRULY not happy in your relationship or if it's just not healthy, leave. You will find the person meant for you! No need to worry. I know someday it's all we can think about "what if I never find someone" everyone thinks it sometimes, but donèt stress about it. Good luck!

We feel like breaking up when things are no longer what we expected . We might have lost their love. Sometimes toxic relationship makes us lose our self respect , feeling of security . So thinking over if breaking up is the correct solution is the first step . Sometimes we might like to talk and solve the problem . Otherwise it is OK. Break up . Enjoy being independent . Enjoy your own company . Hangout with your friends and meet new people . Engage yourself in activities you like . Don't worry about your next love . It will come on its own .

While only you can know what to do in this situation, the best thing to do is to try and focus on the reasons for the breakup that way you can decide if this is something that you really want, or if the relationship can be worked on to solve any problems (if there are any), and remember, you are worthy and the breakup can be a way to help you focus more on yourself and find new opportunities as well as meet new people. There is someone out there for everyone, and everyone shares that fear, so please don't worry or feel alone in that.

I was once in a very unhealthy relationship. I really loved this person, we'd been together for a year and I was convinced I was going to marry him. He broke up with me in a terrible way, but then later he continued saying he had feelings for me even though he was dating other girls, right in front of my face, I didnt want to leave him because I thought he was the only one who could ever love me. If like me, you are truly hurting staying with this person, then dont be scared of breaking up. Someone will definitely love you again. Bad things or hurtful things need to end so that good ones can begin. So break up if you truly want to, and if you feel upset you can always come online to 7 Cups of Tea and talk to one us. We will be there for you.

The main thing is that you are happy. No one knows for sure if they'll be able to find someone again but it's important to stay hopeful and look after yourself. It can be quite a daunting task and it's totally understandable to feel doubt and be be uncertain about the future. Breaking up can be stressful and a huge part of your life. So it makes sense to have mixed feelings about it. When in doubt it's best to consider what matters to you the most and ultimately make a decision that you feel is right and make sure you take you take as much time as you need to reach that decision.

Sorry that you feel this way, often times when a relationship didn’t work, it affects our self esteem. Be strong and love yourself. Think of the reasons why u wanted to break up. Talk to your friends about it. It’s good to remind yourself of your self worth. Think and focus on your great personality and try to look at the positive traits that you have. Those simple things will help u gain yours self confidence back. It might be difficult and scary but remember that you are worthy of love and if you love yourself (I know so cheesy but think about it), people will see that and know your worth. Try to do new things, meet new people and u will see that there’s a bright side with this. Be strong :)

First off, I really hope you are okay! I know these types of feeling's can mix everything up. If you feel like you want to break up, it's always important to think through every decision, and do what's best for YOU. If you think breaking up is the best decision for you and your happiness, that's okay. But always remember people will love you, and people do love you and care for you!! Think through what you want to do, don't give up. People do love you, remember that! ! ! Don't do anything you aren't comfortable with!! You'll be okay! Stay strong!

Everyone deserves love. More than that, everyone deserves a love that is healthy and happy. If you want to break up, it means you are not completely happy. I can't tell you what you should do, because I am not you and I don't know what your life is like. But I think following your instincts is always a good choice. And being happy and loving yourself will improve quality of life. There is always someone to love, including you. Someone else is going to go through this same situation and be looking for someone to love. There is always going to be someone that will love you again. The bigger focus should be on loving yourself and making sure your needs are met.